Reasons for Our Successes and Failures in Life

I can talk about some of Rak Su's memoirs. The place where I am and the one I am is due to my father. He is very strict against me, and I have great expectations. I can think that Lac Su is grateful to his father to a certain extent, he said at the end of his memoir "Pa always works on this bridge.When I finally arrived at the bridge, It was there to make me pass by "(246).

All the successful people we see today experienced failure in certain aspects of their lives. Failure is part of the growth process. This is a test to prepare to acknowledge success when finally succeeding. There is a general truth that "achieving sustained success can be achieved only by failure". This means that you must experience a failure, but you do not have to accept it. You need to understand this and decisively deal with it as it comes. I try to read one or two articles about medium every day. This is to broaden my thought and improve my writing skills. So, in most cases, after reading, I shared a series of tweets and summarized my content. A few days ago, I did this as usual and replied. Amazingly, my device has inbox information from friends. We learned the same course from the same alma mater. My tweet caused his news, I will share it below

I am working full time for two years. I have a share of success (service) and failure (product). Recent success is not a mere failure. The point of success is that it is boring to repeat successfully. It is a practice to be successful many times, or to repeat successfully that your goal is not big enough. In my case the latter. That is the reason I am sad. I am spending time on self-help groups every week. This time, I tripped this TED speech, and Jia Jiang talked about his 100-day rejection experiment. We strongly recommend this speech to everyone. When he made a very bad speech, this conversation returned me to 11 years old and was rejected by my teacher (I was humiliating). This is another story that you can read here. This bad experience has made me perfectionist in a way that is not so good for me. I began to avoid things I was not good at.