Reader Question of the Week: What’s The Difference Between Being Controlling & Protective?

I was called from many outsiders to rule over and over again. But almost every decision I do makes me happy 95% of my girlfriend. The only time I intervened was the time at which her decision could lead to physical harm (ie drunk alone with a group of 50 or more people), or the decision she made was later spiritual and emotional Whether it leads to confusion (that is, on Saturday night her parents were doing two major tasks going to the movies on Monday and Tuesday.

In both cases, she thanked me personally and sincerely I proceeded in the right direction. She encountered an organizational problem, asked me to help me keep on improving pace and concentration while I was studying. She asked me to help her diet and keep her health (heals healthy food and regular exercise). I did two things, but I did not do any more, but I blamed those who were her friends who are controlling me.

What do you think about the neighbors? I know that you may be writing a book, but I really want to respond. What?

There are two differences that you want to control rather than control. I expressed what I wanted to do and we wanted to relax in the house this week because we had a long drive there. The whole journey has exceeded 3,300 miles. My children are ordinary parents and they like to go out and enjoy life, so my fear is legal. I went to Colorado two weeks and a half ago. This trip is over. I have never met my grandchildren or adult children for nearly a year. I admit that my idea of ​​most people will consider the idea of ​​nonsense four weeks before we embark on the way ahead. When we got on the road I tried to remind myself that my worry would disappear. The majority of my fears are control, I feel that we need control to avoid complete panic attacks. Other people (especially my grandchildren) will not be exposed to me as I am worried that I may need to keep controlling.

Learning the feelings of people's lives is important to health. If it is not controlled it can cause long-term stress, which can directly lead to cardiovascular disease. Nurses need to develop these ideas by supporting the five new health management methods of the New Economic Foundation and the development of protective elements such as the management, engagement, confidence of the Youth Foundation. There are families, communities, working people, and everything that makes you self. In this way the article will be more reasonable, and in the end you may have your own few ideas to create health. Last week's article suggested that we need to build nurse's "heart, head and hand" assets and reduce top-down "fixed" care. Nurses and nurse readers need to pay more attention to listening to their colleagues and emphasize the accuracy of care rather than mistakes. This is a way based on half of the asset or glass.