Privacy and Marriage in To Room Nineteen, by Doris Lessing

"Everyone has three kinds of lives: public, me, and a secret." This citation can make a variety of explanations. One of the main points drawn by Gabriel García Márquez in this sentence is that privacy is essential for individuals and gives personal autonomy and personality. Without privacy, one person can not live normally. However, in various circumstances such as marriage, privacy may be infringed and infringed. In the story of "To Room Nineteen" by Susan Rawlings, the protagonist of Doris Lessing, privacy was infringed and led to suicide.

Like Gilman, Doris Lessing of her "Room 19" is a hidden meaning behind the actions of a woman psychologically disturbing and the only way this action releases a woman We will aim to clarify whether it will become. From the beginning, Lessing declared that he condemned the patriarchal rational view as he said it is a story about "intellectual failure" (Leising, Room 524). For her husband and wife, "All is progressing smoothly" (527), they mocked the fact that their wisdom continues to argue that everything is progressing smoothly (528) . As Janina Nordius said in a story, Lessing condemns "festival of modern society and its intelligence" (172)

Susan Rawling, the hero of Doris Lessing's short story "To Room Nineteen", opposed her inner emptiness and the choices she should make. This painful fight eventually determined the alienation of her life. In order to express this psychological process, Lessing is, including the vividness of the White House to express her nasty emotional state, and later color and the inside of the description, is her only choice Through what seems to be, she seems to separate Susan from her inner alienation: suicide

In the To Room Nineteen of Doris Lessing, the moment Susan finally committed suicide was unexpected. "As she likes to lie there, it flows into the dark river, in the room, in the lungs, I have heard a faint snoring of gas flowing into the brain" (208). Through the serious behavior of Susan, she found that she had to escape. She told a lie to have a lover that hides loneliness. Her husband called for her to divorce, but she did not want to divorce her. She will not be able to produce a Michael plant in time, we felt the need to end her life because of the fear of exposure. To my surprise, she believes that death is her only way. She has left her life and her family is in a miserable state. Everything is isolated in one room. She is a depressed woman having problems dealing with her inner devil. It makes me feel like actually killing yourself is two different things. Most people get annoyed with time, feel loneliness, isolation. Killing yourself is not the way to deal with it in today's society