Parenting: Asking the Right Questions

This famous title of the movie "karate kid" is an example of the most common parent concern about disciplining a child. Children sometimes listen and do not even remember. Normally, the more you are jealous, the more they will not do this.

When I joined the parenting program, I got a lot of reading lists on child rearing theory. I have found a way to raise children, including ways to care for children, handling, management, administration, education, and even programs. This is a self-help rule that parents all over the world search for and apply, in order to do what I think must be done and to satisfy my needs surely.

The development psychology world is a step further from child rearing theory to child rearing style (authoritarianism, authoritarianism, tolerance, not participating) and its influence. Authoritarian parenting seems to be most effective: a happy, capable, successful child

So, if I had a child-rearing type other than an authoritative style? How can I break a way to encourage negative inheritance? Several researchers have concluded that combining and evaluating their parenting styles is one way to achieve successful child rearing. In other parenting literature, we introduce more methodology, success stories, and proven effective child care skills. Unfortunately, none of this was useful to me, as my child could not volunteer to help him pick up his towels.

The good news is that there is no need to wait for Kung Fu Master to "show him classes". All I need is implementation - no one wants him to pick up his towel in hand, except me. Proposing appropriate questions is the key to achieving this goal. If I make a wrong question, I can not find an appropriate answer. Byron Keity's work is really a savior to me. My correct question about how to make a child pick up a towel instead of asking me is "Can my child pick up a towel?"

The truth is that I am glad that I do not cut it but pick it up as I want it. If I want to do something, I do not expect others to do it for me, but I will do it myself. Before I knew it, my child started picking up the towel after taking a shower.

"What makes a good parent?" This is a very common problem. There are many parenting skills, which is the best? There is neither a correct answer nor a wrong answer to this question, but there are good and better ones. In Harper Lee's "Kill Mockingbird", the characters of the two fathers, Atticus Finch and Bob Ewell were screened. Atticus finch is a father who raised two children in the town of Meikom in Alabama. He did not speak for a moment, "Tell them, I am very grateful," he said "(p. 114) How we changed this feeling for the way I see. He comes out of here more and knows that he is seeing more truth and lies. This indicates that arguing that doing the right thing is not just a cake.

Some parents doubt whether technology is suitable for children. They asked the children what they are doing in the class today and reported that the children just said they would only use the computer again. This will cause parents to question the extent of differentiation in the classroom. My parents would like to know if the children are just staring at the screen all day. 2. Provide parents with the opportunity to use technology: Provide parents with the same skills you use in classes when you return to school night or business day. Please tell us the sample course of what the students are trying to do during class or during class. If possible, please invite your parents to your own private release date. Parents can "play" using a Chromebook or iPad.

I will pursue it. Parents should ask unanswered questions in conversation with their children. These questions usually require close correspondence to keep the conversation going on. An open-ended question that begins with "what", "what", "who", "how" is very useful for opening a child. Parents should try to avoid questions that simply answer yes or no. When asking the right questions to help conversation, parents need to be careful not to ask too many questions when talking to children. When this happens, the conversation will soon be interrogated and the children will be much less likely to be opened. When you communicate with your child * I express your feelings and thoughts. To be effective in communication, it must be bidirectional. Parents can teach children many things such as morals and values ​​by expressing their thoughts and emotions.