Our Greatest Influence Come from Our Family Systems

How adults manage both relationships of good and evil represents the continuation of the developmental model of early family life (Bowen, 1978; Kerr & Bowen, 1988; Titelman, 1998, Walsh, 2003). Families are composed of individuals that are emotional, physical, social and spiritually different, but these areas also have similarities due to genetic and shared environments. When these people interact as families, they begin to form a behavioral system in which balance is established within the family.

How often will you consider what makes our family a reality? The basis of handling family systems is that each family is a unique social system with its own structure and communication model. The individuality, the core beliefs and values, and the influence of the extended family all influence each other and are the driving force of our family. All the family members are strongly influenced by the family system. Therefore, changes in one family also affect family systems and other families.

Our family strongly influences our emotions and our behavior, and family is part of us. We will contact you first with our parents and family. What our parents say and what they do affect our behavior. In the movie "Skin", Sandra's father Abraham said to Sandra "Never give up", and he did not give up reclassifying Sandra to white. All of this affected Sandra, and although she left him for almost 30 years, Sandra still remembers and acts according to him. She tried to contact her mother, but she never asked her mother for a reply, but Petrus got angry but did not give up. At the end of the movie, Sandra's children questioned why she was not looking for her white family, Sandra said, "You never stop needing your parents My parents will have a big impact on me.

Family relationship plays an important role as it becomes aware of many people about life. As we grow we are influenced by our surroundings and we make our most difficult decision based on our growth experience. Decisions parents make in their lives are sometimes reflected in their children. These are patterns, sometimes even a tradition that takes time to finish. Low-income households live in a world different from middle-class and upper-class families; these differences play an important role in families and they make decisions in our lives Change the way to change.