Obsessive Love

The forced love on the earth written by Alice Hoffman is the story of everyday life belonging to the era of realism literature. Realism is often described as a literary movement expressing life in a very practical way. In general, the functions and plots included in works of this literary era are as similar as possible to the content of daily life. Donna M. Campbell pointed out that "realism is a faithful expression of reality or reality and realism is a literary skill practiced by many writing schools" (realism in American literature, 1860-1890) .

People confuse attraction and love. When these two are merged, it can lead to a variable and destructive relationship. Compulsive love is murder, rape, pursuit, obscene, love that leads to suicide. Compulsive love rounds divide this love into stages. The stage can be clearly identified with specific behavioral characteristics. The first stage included the first charm. This is overwhelming, emotional or physical appeal, ignoring the signs of nonconformity and focusing on physical and emotional features rather than personality traits. The addict began to have a mysterious illusion about this person, then began to show signs of dominance, compulsive behavior.

Wheels have four stages that indicate the development of compulsive love. Attraction is the first stage that individuals are fascinated by abuse and lack of emotions. Compulsion enthusiasts are low self-esteem people and are usually attracted to someone who has sentimental purpose. The second stage is an anxious period when individuals begin to feel uneasy and begin to lose emotional ones. They began to worry, that they gradually entered the next stage of the dilemma. At this stage he or she is giving up to pursue their feelings. Compulsive individuals ignore their spiritual, emotional and physical needs to satisfy their obsession. The final stage of the wheel is the destruction phase, where individuals engage in self-destruction and operation.

Compulsive love is a situation where one person feels overwhelming obsession that owns and protects others who can not accept failures and rejection, feel strong appeal. Although DSM - 5 does not clearly classify specific psychiatric diagnoses, some people think that compulsive love is regarded as a mental disorder resembling attachment disorder, personality disorder, and mania. A brute sweetheart, depending on the strength of its charm, may feel that you can not completely restrict extreme behavior, such as violence against yourself or others. Obsessive love may arise from trauma as a child and may fall in love at first glance, but it may continue indefinitely and sometimes requires psychotherapy. Women are more likely to have obsessive love than women