Obsession in Enduring Love

Exploring the attachment of McWan to sustainable love In "sustained love" you can find obsession in various ways. McEwan uses language expressions and character representations to explore various kinds of obsession. The most obvious obsession in the novel is Joe 's obsession of Jade. As a reader, we have discovered that this may be the most disturbing for the intensity being presented. At the beginning of the novel, after the accident, Joe soon went down the hill to check the body of Logan, and Jade.

The ancient Greeks taught about eight kinds of love: erotic love, affectionate love and friendship, familiar love and affection, and naughty love. This is the essence of long-term relationship, compulsion love, permanent love, self-love, self-love, or love. It is spiritual love. 'Philautia' or self-love is the form of most healthy love (not to be confused with narcissism), 'Pragma' or permanent love together to build various levels of relationship through decades of perseverance It is shared among people who worked. And tolerance. Friendship that has overcome the trials of time and distance also has "pragmatism". Therefore, the art of love is the art that enables us to "stand in love". I personally like vocabulary of Greek love of love

There were 8 different love for the ancient Greeks. Love is erotic love, Fira is friendship or affectionate love, Stage is love related to relatives and intimacy, Rudas is playful love, fanatics is obsessive obsessive love, pragmas are mature, sustainable It is love. And Agape is selfless and unconditional love. The last kind of love can be said to be the most important: Philadelphia, or self love. Ancient Greeks understood that we must first be able to love ourselves in order for us to love others. Do not confuse love with self love. We have ourselves and unhealthy appeal, focusing on vanity, fame, and wealth. Instead, Philauchia shows self-love in the most healthy form, we accept ourselves, feel comfortable on our own skin, and have the ability to love ourselves. Like Aristotle said: "All friendly feelings for others are extensions of male emotions." Self-love is the foundation of all love in our life.