My Values - Work, Family, and Friendship

My Values ​​- Work, Family, and Friendship I will insist on three important values: diligence, family, and friendship. I think these values ​​will make people's lives better and easier. They are safe and will prepare me for the future. Without these values, I might not care about anything. My values ​​are influenced by my parents. The only problem that I have to solve on my own is to work hard. I have to work hard in order to prove to myself that I am sufficiently smart.

Another friend reminded me recently that I am a donor. I will give my friendship in any situation and pay more attention to my friendship (if not more) than my family. As the only child, I have a high expectation on how to make 1000% friendship, become the best people, friends, and listeners. As a provider, it is easy to thin yourself. Give, give, feel free to come back and / or feel supported. Storage space is not easy. What can and often happens is to internalize the questions, problems, and challenges of the people we have. Please consider your interaction directly, via social media, or via text. In all the beautiful + ugly things we touch, we are not aware that we can digest them. This is a place we feel tired, poor, tired, moody, unrealistic, by keeping space. This is the problem

Just like a lot of people, I am keen to build deeper ties and intimacy with my friendship. When there are no brothers and sisters, these friendships have become big families, and I like to ask for help as much as my real family. Even so, I spent a while to learn the value of quality and quantity. I am looking forward to the loyalty of new friends and the loyalty of those with him for five years. This usually confuses me, hurts, makes me feel angry - I do not fully understand why others are not serious about friendship as I did the first time. Fortunately, I recognize and value my faithful friendship now. And you can understand that the new friendship takes time to evolve into what I build with others.