My Parents Love Me Because ... • Celebrate Kids

I hope the facial expression will be visible on the face of his parents. They do not know that he will get up from time to time. waiting. I am ahead of myself ...

Last Wednesday, Randy Thomas wrote an important guest blog inspired by Chapter 4 of "No More Perfect Kids", Jill Savage and the book I wrote. His writing always reminds me of his view of the question "Is I important to you?" Please remind me that there is no space in the book.

It feels important and I feel that love is not the same, knowing that you are loved is more important than the doubt that you are loved.

When we feel unconditionally loved, we feel that it is important for them. You can not express your love. Tell your children - you love them anyway. (Pages 108 to 109)

I casually interview a child officially at times, and I always want permission. Another problem I like to ask them is this:

The honesty, enthusiasm, and answers of children of all ages never let me down. One of my favorite memories was an interview with eleven children in front of about 100 guardians who spent years in Budapest, Hungary. I asked, "How can you tell if your mother or father loves you?" You can compare the following answers with the way the child thinks to answer this question.

"He knows that my father loves me because he brings me a gift while on a business trip." - a 9 - year - old girl

"Sometimes she kisses me, so she hugs me, she said she will miss me when she returns home from the trip." - 7-year-old boy

My favorite answer comes from a 15 year old boy living in Belgrade, Yugoslavia. He grabbed a microphone instead of letting me have it like another child. He confidently saw his parents and declared as follows.

When I thought that I am asleep I know that my mother loves me, but I am not, she tilts her tip into my bedroom and I say that I love her I whispered.

When a teenage boy finished sharing, I turned to 100 parents to comment. Do not speak. I found out that I was not the only one crying. We listened to love with his voice and was emotional because I saw love on his face. This is a powerful moment to remember. I hope the facial expression will be visible on the face of his parents. They do not know that he sometimes wakes up

How does your child answer this question? Why do not you find - and celebrate more intimate feelings with them. What kind of answer do you want to ask before asking? If you can not hear it, what kind of changes can you make?

Dr. Jill Savage and Dr. Kathy Koho shared some ideas in their new book to help you better understand your child. We are hoping that you will not be able to meet any more perfect kids.

My parents love me so much and I know me as much as my parents. They know that I am a good girl I have not done anything bad, but they ask me to wear different clothes, as this is the easiest way to say the same thing to the world. However, if my skin and equipment can not quiet you, I absolutely want to know the code to change the code "We love you" to funeral instructions before "wearing beautiful clothes" is.

I am a disabled person. The sun can kill me in a few hours. That's right. Now my parents do not love me any more. They love me more. Still, my wife does not love me. Because of that, she fell in love with me. These are the most unreasonable or important. A reasonable selfish agent never loves people like me, as there is no material and selfish benefit anyway. I am weaker than the lawn blade - at least under the sun. I can say the same to you now. What you love is not what you care about, because they are perfect, perfect, and pure. However, due to their vulnerability, defects, weaknesses. Their pain and truth If you do not do this you will not love at all, only idealization and intelligence, this relationship breaks under slight pressure

Despite their behavior, people tell me that my parents truly love me and I am hoping that I am the best. Because they know that disagreements and violations of opinion do not lead to relationships with parents, they will grow in an environment where there is a possibility of discussing with parents. People with poisonous parents can not say the same thing. Sometimes I like to shout poisonous people. Your brain will better deal with it by reducing your sensitivity to it if you are afraid and are used to loving those who often deal with many fears. In some cases, you will not think of anything scary. Because proper fear tools are readjusted to the environment in which they grew, not in the environment they are in.