My personal definition does not include "things" at all. Who will not care about the type of car you drive and how big your house is when you drive (you will not). Your thoughts are not related to your work, your office, or how much you earn.
Personal success depends on the content and pleasure of your life. This does not mean that challenge and disappointment are not included. A rich, awkward, rewarding life is what you like and has a positive influence on others. It seems to be correct for me. If you find a job you like, you will never work in your life. I know that I will not. Show me more ...
Past, present, and future are important to maintain perspective. It is very satisfying that I do not regret it and regret it. Your current situation and satisfaction with it are also very important, and trying hard to achieve future goals and milestones motivates you and makes your life fun and challenging I will keep it.
In this era of our lives, success usually depends on the amount you earn, or the amount of wealth, power and promotion you accumulate. As I grew older I thought that the happiest and satisfying people are the most successful. Wealthy people, poor people, middlemen tend to think that life is not a journey, it is not the final destination. They started traveling at the age of 25, and although they could not really afford it, they knew that they would be better than water, even if they were expensive, so the quantity They grabbed the startup opportunity and moved to Europe and Asia in order to experience what most people have dreamed about. It would be nice if they could get rich from experience. As long as you adapt to the abstinence of most things, things will never get out of control.
Another revelation of my success is that its definition will change with time and experience. Initially, the definition of my success was to earn a lot of money at a respected company. I am not interested in working alone. I noticed how effective the trip was, and when the freelancer got free according to my schedule, I completely changed my direction. Who knows, I will change my mind again in a year and I decide I want to work for another big company. We have to show ourselves what we want, and we can accomplish this only by pushing ourselves constantly beyond the comfort zone. I do not think there is the ability to travel alone, so I tried it first, I went on a day trip and then increased my days until I got the courage to be alone. I think that I can not concentrate on telework until I try it on the go, and I realize that it is more efficient than an office.
An important element in my transition is to understand what my personal success definition is. As part of it, I soon noticed that the definition of social success - productivity, money, fame, career - is not mine. The success of my life, the definition in my own words, is a meaningful life and there are several elements of work. I really want to do what I care. But at the same time it is equally important to me and there are other important priorities. That is to spend a lot of energy and time on love and relationships. In the long run, this brings so much happiness and beauty to my life and may earn higher revenue than my favorite work.
The six lifetime challenges I have confirmed during the transitional period are between me and the meaningful life.