Marriage and security Today, when people think about marriage, they think about the two people who are deeply deeply in love, and they decide to tie their lives. Unfortunately, this is not always true. In addition to love, there are many reasons for marriage. Marriage has different meanings for everyone, depending on the times, the economic situation, and the culture they live in. But whatever these different reasons, the main idea is always the same. For safety, people are married.
This safe marriage concept is most evident in the character of Charlotte Lucas. Charlotte Lucas is the eldest son of her family. She is described as "a smart, intelligent young woman, about 27 years old", Elizabeth Bennett's "best friend." In this era, she is considered to be mature, so she understands that her married life is inherited to her enough. She was even seen as a "warning" that Lizzy should not easily see Mr. Darcy at the Netherfield Stadium. She knew that Lizzy was looking down on him, but if she seemed "uncomfortable" to Mr. Darcy's eyes, she thought she was "an idiot."
Marriage and security Today, when people think about marriage, they think about the two people who are deeply deeply in love, and they decide to tie their lives. Unfortunately, this is not always true. In addition to love, there are many reasons for marriage. Marriage has different meanings for everyone, depending on the times, the economic situation, and the culture they live in. But whatever these different reasons, the main idea is always the same.
They agree to cooperate for the benefit and safety of others. The marriage habits differ by region, but the most common marriage is to make men acquire a legitimate heir. And as a sex of dawn era (many families like this book), the transition from nomadic society to agricultural society means men want to protect their wealth from their heirs than others, and resources accumulate. Marriage is not about love, nor is it necessary. Even today, many people are married for legal benefit, but this is not necessarily "privilege" for them. If you are forced to establish legal contact with someone to join insurance such as medical insurance, there is a possibility to place an individual in an unstable place. The idea that marriage should reflect love or love is a rather new idea. Looking further back to history, romantic love is an effective feeling worth pursuing.
In terms of romance, marriage is a sacred ceremony that collects two families to celebrate the true love of the ideal. But for realists this is a way to achieve stability and safety. People can hear the romantic concept of marriage in movies, books, poetry. Aside from dreams, this romantic idea is an illusion, which can not be realized. Women want to be overwhelmed by their only true love, but we will face a woman you will get a feeling only from cheap romantic novels. In the real world, people get married for safety and for love they will no longer fall in love. Instead, they look at the big picture and those who go somewhere, they are goal oriented, and they are stable and smart. To be honest, everything will be cheaper as long as I do this. Ideal marriage is based on a combination of romance and safety