Lying to Maintain Privacy

We value our independence and autonomy - we value the right to make our own decisions. We want to be able to do what we want to do - spouse or partner will not always hinder our freedom

In short, no one likes to be controlled, but always tells what we can and can not do. We place great importance on having a sense of controlling our own lifestyle. One way we maintain control or independence is deceiving

Scams help us protect our privacy - we can make our own choices and for ourselves we decide to do - and who If there is) it will find it

Fraud allows us to protect the border - keep people away, keep others safe and maintain our freedom (see Cole, Solomon)

For example, when a child steals extra cookies and tells lies to their parents for that, this behavior is often more than just disobedience. This is a way for children to stick to themselves, do what they want to do, make decisions by themselves, prevent parents from interfering with their goals, and establish a sense of being released from parental control . Lying is usually done to maintain personality and autonomy (it also helps children get cookies). With this in mind, it is natural that children raised in a highly controlled environment are more likely to win freedom using fraud as opposed to it.

As an adult, we have no difference from our children - we are lying to employers, spouses, boyfriends, girlfriends to regain control over what we can and can not do.

People often lie about the smallest and least important issues (see disturbing issues) to regain self-awareness.

Hippos Augustine wrote two books on lies: On Lying (De Mendacio) and Against Meying (Contra Mendacio). Lie is not a capability to understand it, a lie is a gift that is unique to man, it can deceive himself not only to deceive others, but to believe false things. Motivation is usually tied from the perspective of self-esteem and self-defense We strive to create the best version and we lie so that we do not have to face the result of other incomplete self will arrive. Please pay attention to our achievements and skills so that others can respect us more or hide our mistakes so that we will not lose this respect.

People look happy when they are lying in society, maintaining good relationships, avoiding disagreement with other people. These lies are called 'white lies'. People tend to lie in the company. In this case, there is no difference between lying lady and lying lady. People protect their privacy and others and lie to maintain self-worth and self-esteem. Even if you lie so that someone does not hurt other people's feelings, even lying will not be considered harmful and deceptive. Today, when a salesman deliberately creates a misunderstanding by omitting certain facts, "missing" is considered part of the business. In business, people may need to maintain good relationships and even lie to sell products. Fraud of fraudulent profits is considered a harmful lie. On the other hand, the doctor did not tell the patient's health not to show it in the family; or the police lying to avoid panic are noble lies.

There is an advantage in lying down. It makes people feel better about themselves, makes them look better from the eyes of others, and maintains a good relationship. At the same time, a lie may cause problems. There is a possibility that the lying is cognitively exhausted, there is a possibility that the danger of being punished increases. How do we know if a lie has a positive result, a negative result, or both? In a recent review, we encourage people to focus on the reasons for lying to make people predict the outcome of these lies. In particular I studied ways to remove concerns for others, desire for material benefits, and desire to maintain a positive self-concept. To be related