Lying and avoiding hurting people’s feelings

Question: "At Sutta, Buddha says to talk to people only, if he is true and useful for them, he will not even even talk about unrealistic things to others, so I I will try to be honest, but I tend to lie to avoid hurting feelings and inviting conflict.

Sometimes we have to face the fact that we can not save all of our emotions without being hurt. That is their own pain. If they allow simple words to affect them and affect them, they will cause their own suffering. You may have already started it, but in the end their heart is weak. That is why we practice Buddhism and meditation. Please do not confuse words, thoughts, actions to confuse us

Eventually it will reveal any lies or dishonesty. It may be hours, days, months or years, but a lie seems to be sick - it may take some time to show symptoms, but it seems like it will look like a surface in the end It will be

If you do not want to tell a lie, do not say anything and ask people to find the truth for themselves. If you lie and they notice, irrespective of your intentions they may be angry with you as they tell a lie without telling them the truth - this is how they get rid of the mistake You can help

It is important to help as much as possible. Sometimes this means to tell the truth, even if it is a tough fact. If it is convinced that saving something from something or making a big mistake or decision, there is a thing called "white lie".

But we must remember that we will become habitual to lie, to do a lot of other things in life. The more we lie, the easier it is to be natural. And since we are no longer what we are thinking, we will not even know that we will lie.

Think about telling the truth and lying, then think about yourself and the impact on them.

Is the intention important? People think well that their intention proves that a lie is justified. Do not hurt other people's feelings more than hurt them ... ....? This lie is a very slippery slope. My client is justified by saying that he does not want to hurt them to prove that he is lying to more than one woman; but more important fact is that he controls his own opinion I do not want to want to grab It is bad enough that grabbing something that he knows is necessary for him to lie. His lies have nothing to do with their emotions; this is about the intention he is piloting and controlling. If you lie to prevent you from hurting others and eventually hide your own actions, you will cross your boundary and your partner will not decide whether your action will be accepted You can rest assured that you have violated your right. No

Sometimes people tell a lie to not hurt others' feelings. Does the Lord insist on this custom? No, it is not. For many people, such a lie is not a big deal. This is one of the sins we accept. In fact, we advocate the term "small white lie". This is a small lie. It is white (pure innocence), and it does not harm anyone, it may actually bring some pain. Andy Griffith is a wonderful performance, but at the show Bernie Fife often messed up something, and Andy often lied to allow his emotions. Our society has reached the level we admire. After all, you are doing it because you care about others.

The truth hurts people. Still more painful? Most people will agree that cheating leads to various negative consequences, including the collapse of trust, the collapse of human relations, the loss of work, and even criminal convictions. Why do people lie? Most people tell lies to show themselves better, to not hurt the feelings of others, or to gain social status in some way. Lying is never ideal, but new research suggests that it may actually be very ominous - it opens the way to increasingly big lies.