It is not a typical Hollywood love movie that eternal sunshine does not stand out. A Hollywood love movie is a movie, a couple gathers at last and then lives happily, but this is a love story showing the reality of love and the result. Love is not 100% happiness, it involves pain. In order to remove this distress after dissolution or death, the company Lacuna invented a way to eliminate people's memory.
Professor of psychology Stephen Hayes distinguishes between the two kinds of pain. Cleansing pain and dirty pain. Loss of health, loss of loved ones, refusal, broken birth, childbirth, divorce, natural disasters, antisocial forces: Cleaning pain is an unavoidable pain due to life. The Buddha called for this type of pain and the first arrow was painful. What happened to a wound that was not before. Pain in cleaning is temporary - pain is lost when drinking Rx, giving birth, relieving loss and withdrawing from antisocial forces. The speed at which people recover from pain is called resilience. Resilience is the ability to recover quickly after difficult difficulties.
Pain and pain are inevitable. Painful pain transforms them into physical pain. You may not be able to control pain, such as refusing to work, losing someone you love, hurting your heart. But as with thinking about yourself, most emotional pain happens from the heart. So what you can control is how to cope with the pain. Think of it as a lifetime test; you have two choices: either to bury flowers in compost or to grow flowers from compost. Regardless of whether I like it or not, we are influenced by people who interact with us. Of course, everyone is their own individual, but the growth of life is formed by human relations, which affects our way of thinking, even recognizing and acting. It is (and simple) interesting that we do not have to talk face to face with these people. They can be family historical figures, writers, celebrities or descendants you are pursuing
I may have told you last week, but it is worth repeating or introducing according to the situation. While I continued browsing the canvas, love, and everything in between, I learned that trauma is inevitable. Pain means emotion, pain is usually trauma to a specific part of life. Now I am dealing with the trauma and "worthworthy" work I did for my work. This will help me to conclude that I can handle a lot, and even at my own expense, I will continue to deal with a lot of things. This applies to friendship, partnership, family, acquaintance etc. I only want to feel trauma, there is no way to avoid it, so I use my privilege as a tool to teach through trauma. I think that it is very good. Please do not blow horn or other things by yourself.