Love Child

In her opinion about the Love Child series, Mhlophe himself calls these works "This trip in my life experience". It properly grasps the theme of these works. The two issues in question, "the moment of transition" and "loving children" reflect Mhlophe's life experience. But each of her stories is reflected in different ways. The moment of change was the direct memory and story of her experience at the age of 17 at Mountflair Boarding School in Eastern Cape.

As the eldest son of three boys father and eight children, it is beneficial to witness the relationship of love of both parents / children. Please look at the depths of love for parents' children and love for their parents. In most cases, as opposed to the slow love for their parents, it is true that greater love shines toward children for their parents' hearts. Children should not love their parents, they are not love from their deep, primitive love from their parents to their children, they can not go beyond it, resulting from internal natural resources. It strengthens the true bondage of the relationship, and most importantly through the first part of their life, greater love from parents, more tolerance, patience and teaching

Unconditional love - whether they love children or whether they love you - are part of being a good parent. I have heard from many parents that "unconditional love" between them and their children is even unilateral. Even if the kids do not like to come back, they will like it. This is part of the job - from the territory. Moreover, I think that I am looking forward to a good parent. "There are two bad sides in unrequited love, but love is only known to our culture, rather than rejection.In fact, according to the survey, loose subjects have various negative emotions People who pursue anxiety, frustration, guilt, etc. "

It is difficult for me to fall in love with angry children. It is difficult to fall in love with weak, weak, helpless children. To love shy children. I am frightened and love children very lonely. For 40 years I pushed them away, but that day is coming when I can not refuse their cry. I learned to sit next to them in their anger, their helplessness, their shame, their fear and loneliness. I listened to their stories and learned to feel their feelings. I said "It does not matter, you are not alone anymore, I can help you solve all the big feelings, I am here now I am loving you" I will.