Loneliness and Acceptance

I feel uncomfortable in my world. Being alone makes me uneasy. I always feel the necessity to share my thoughts and feelings with others in my world. My feelings about myself do not seem to be as important as others think about me. I am afraid of being alone. This is true for all of us. It seems that we are always looking for people who really love and understand us. Someone has given us the purpose of life. However, I think that we are basically lonesome. In our hearts, we are lonely feelings.

Dorothy is talking about loneliness that is different from the loneliness I explained many years ago. Her prodigal son is not the loneliness of the lost prodigal son, it is not the loneliness people accept in this discordant and incomplete world. This is loneliness of adoration to God's love, loneliness after saying "no" to a simple way. So you can say 'Yes' to good people. This is loneliness of homesick exile, loneliness of immortal soul living in the deadly world. This is a sort of loneliness that draws love from myself and others; loneliness covers humanity.

Loneliness is a particularly difficult problem, as it accepts and insists that our loneliness brings a serious shame. To admit that we are alone means that we can feel like we admit that we lost the most basic areas of life, failure, love, affection. It is difficult to attack our basic instinct and ask for help. For example, university students may see articles about elderly who help gardening. She helped him spend two hours planting a row of flowers and "banks" in the process. A few months later, when she wanted to make Malaysian cuisine for her boyfriend, the retired chef came to her cooking class.

Today 's psychologist accepts wrinkles that her mistake is not a list of Fromm - Reichman' s loneliness all. They argue that loneliness should be seen as an intrinsic and subjective experience, not an external objective condition. Loneliness wrote, John Cacioppo, a leading psychologist in this field, said, "It is not a synonym of loneliness to keep it from being influenced by loneliness or a synonym for others." Cacioppo attributes this feeling to social facts. Because he is convinced that this has serious damage to the body and the brain. Of course, not everyone agrees with him. Another way of thinking is that loneliness is a failure of a social network. Loneliness is more pathologic than not being lonely, because they do not have anyone to take care of and they do not have social support.