Listening to the sketches that I thought positively that my friends have just acted on the stage, has not yet been determined shows one of the possible consequences of listening without judging. You can imagine that there are still many results, but I can tell you that these results are catastrophic. Misunderstanding is the main factor affecting family struggle. When solving his or her problem young people or older people must always be taken seriously. Young people do not necessarily make mistakes.
So, how do you ask without judging? I will replace your judgment with curiosity. Non judgmental hearing is done under guidance assumption that there is something to learn, there is always something we have not found yet. This is especially true when other people seem irrational or crazy. There are reasons to be more interested. I will practice to identify and postpone the judgment in the next week's conversation. If someone agrees, corrects, or gives advice after speaking something to you - postpone this impulse for five minutes and ask yourself, "What did I miss?" You will eventually encounter some sort of judgment. This judgment will be deferred significantly more than usual. Let's report your experience to trusted friends and colleagues. Do you want to postpone judging what challenges you face? How did you overcome it?
Please listen to your judgment and keep it. People with a title have few opportunities to hear. There is little opportunity to think about the problem without putting pressure on someone to vote in some way. One way to make friends with such people is to spend time listening to them. Please see what you can offer them. As a caring person, not a political context. Communicate openly. People need to communicate. I suggest you keep time to discuss how things are going on. Misunderstandings and tensions often occur when people do not have the opportunity to talk about important issues. Communication is a field that must be done periodically; it is like taking vitamins and push-ups.
Changes will not occur overnight. First, you need to practice the ability to listen without judging. Listen to the opinions of people. I think it is really hard to hear criticism, but you have to do it for your dream! I have been there, but I can tell you that it will be very simple over time. Take a deep breath and calm down. Let your team members and friends know the truth safely to you. The person who wants to see you succeed will tell you about your goodness or evil. So please give them the opportunity to promote your growth. You will be amazed at knowing how much you know about yourself and how much they care about you.