Let's Talk: An Alternative to Divorce

The United States became a society of people with fast tempo without interaction. Since my family is busy, I do not have much time for trivia, such as having dinner together or learning each other through conversation. Drive-through drives offer a wide range of quick and easy services. The resort offers a future drive through wedding wedding chapels and divorce driveways. Learning to talk about conflict, not avoiding conflict, is a skill that is lacking in today's culture. It is not that easy to quit marriage.

Now, let's talk about the couple who decided to divorce, especially when they got married. According to a business insider, the divorce rate in the United States is still as high as 53%. However, the divorce rates of Spain, Portugal, Luxembourg, Czech Republic and Hungary all exceed 60%. Even among my friends, some of my friends got married for only one year, divorced, reestablished new relationships, and soon learned that they got married again. Or, a woman's friend who divorced after marriage for two years, and after marriage six years ago. The most common reason is that the husband or wife is being fooled. Yes, it is cheating. Another case is due to domestic violence

I got divorced about 20 years ago. My husband (current husband, second husband, I am married?) Has divorced for a while for a while. My son is divorced. 40-50% of marriages in the United States are divorced. You may be reading this article and you feel that your marriage is the only one to collapse - but you are a very good company. This is a regrettable reality - I am a big fan of marriage - but this is the world we live in. People are divorced. I never thought of becoming one of those people. When my first husband and I went to our pre-marital counseling, our minister said that he is almost unconfident because he will have two successful marriages when he was with us I said to us. I truly believe it. However, as it is now mostly the reason of distant memories, this is not a fact - and the reality of the pain of the heart starting a new life begins.

Can we start with children? Let a divorce remove a shameful shadow and let us speak frankly about this topic. We can inform them that divorce is a family experience process. This is the legal end of marriage, but that is not the end of the relationship between parents and children. We point out the diversity of families and structures around the world and remind them that we are all different, but we all deserve respect. Divorce is a topic that can explain heartache, and it needs to be healed. Why not use it as an opportunity to teach your children sympathy? On the other hand, divorce can explain the productive approach to conflict, communication, and creative problem solving. How about pointing out this so that the children can open up and enjoy the strength and resilience of the family who can tolerate structural change?