When she asked Mr. Bleak, he just said, "This is how those people look." In the United States and elsewhere in the world, it is one of the biggest causes of massacre, repression, slavery, violence and other forms of human suffering. This kind of things can lead to hatred of immediate reason, no reason, which can cause others to hate others by observing them. This disease is racial discrimination. From mass murder to terrorism, there are not so many things that cause more suffering than racial discrimination. If you can live in a world without racial discrimination, it is no doubt that it will be a more peaceful world.
Indeed, it is meaningless to consume energy to convince the Caucasians that we suffer under the pressure of racial discrimination. It is painful, annoying and disappointing. For me, this is the end of hope for a friendly relationship with Caucasians. Caucasian men told me they think they know racial discrimination than I do? No, I do not even want them in my space, not to mention the circle of friends. Black women seem to have worked hard so that white women do not try to persuade our experience. If you do not understand what we have experienced you do not try to understand. That black friend? Go on board and support her, or refuse her. Now you are not her friend. You may hurt her as you will not ask her how to do it. You are not interested in her welfare. It is very painful for her.
I will self-forgive. But this is not the end of pain. Because you forgave me, you are not not suffering. The pain that has been reflected in you for a long time will leave scars and trauma. You still have the darkness you have seen. It looks like fire. It will burn your spirit. So now you have to forgive yourself. It does not seem to make sense. Why are you forgiving your pain? Pain is weakness. At the most superficial level, please allow yourself to be hurt by weaknesses. At a deeper level, I will not forgive others' weaknesses or let me continue with suffering.