Learning to accept support from friends

I do not really think that I can find the way. This stage is 7 months. Just as I am not myself, I am depressed. Just as I am no longer myself.

On paper, I have made a solid group of friends to a very anonymous university so far.

This feeling is getting stronger and stronger. I will not take off the course and separate me myself. I am hiding in my bed, avoiding my consciousness of working hard.

I tried to turn it around one morning. I received my English tutorial, this is the group announcement day. Everyone in the room saw me in a fun way because I never went through the semester.

This is my fear. I got sick and started on the spot. When awareness began, my body began to panic.

I went to a student welfare officer, and we came up with a plan. I dropped out of school. I felt the shoulder was heavy soon.

I think I need to find myself, so I booked a flight to the USA and went for the summer. My family raises me, but I have never been told to drop out of school.

In the United States, I learned a lot about myself. I learned what was wrong with the university and what needs to be changed.

When I arrive home I am pretty sure that things are different. I spent a lot of time thinking about what I wanted. I have plans.

I began going out every evening, but after a 7 - day explosion my body suffered in silence and I fell down. My body gave up, I was in the hospital.

The news came to my friend, I was in the hospital, and within 3 hours they came with food to visit me!

In the next 2 months, they sent me to a safe place. I live in their homes, they confirmed what I am eating, they help me figure out what happened and how do I fix it

To make friends feel uneasy is not that they can not respond, but that means they can not speak.

I do not know why I think this can be done. They are my rock music. 24/7 My friend is calling me to confirm that I am fine.

This is the darkest year of my life If I learned one thing, it means that the darkest moment is still only 60 minutes. But as long as you do not forget that people closest to me are with me, the situation is good.

If I can make a suggestion, that is to make your friends support you. Only when you need them, you can understand how much they bring you

It would be wonderful if your family and friends would support you through your treatment. Please accept this support and cherish it. Please let them know what problems you are trying to solve and how it will become as you progress. Let them accept and serve you. Or if they do not accept it, let them go. But when they are near you, please treat them as excuses or reasons, not treating them as crap. I myself experienced some mental health problems as well. I understand what happens when frustrated black clouds and anxious race wind go around you.

In the past year and a half, this is an independent growth trip. I will leave my house with all my luggage. Ask for and receive support from friends. First, independence is learning to be alone, to go home alone, to live alone, to find your own safety, and to know that I am safe. Next time, the next level is not to fight alone, but to share vulnerabilities with others. Let's rethink the power behind looking for help. I used to be one of the wise people at school (my yearbook at my high school can prove this - "Thank you for helping me with my math homework", "Help me with my physical work Thank you. "Wow ... That is a loser ... ... It's boring! As my work gets more and more difficult, I have reached" peak "at the university computer science semester, and I helped I tried to catch up so I felt that I should be smart enough to solve this problem myself.

It is not always obvious, but friendship is not a shortage. To expand your field of friends, you first need to learn to understand and accept yourself. Even more important is learning to understand and accept others. Review your experience and see how your friends can help you define your identity. Friends share your happiness and bear your burden