Some of the hardest conversations you have ever encountered may involve money. For example, consider the following sentence.
"Dear, you have spent a lot of money on golf recently, because it does not fit our budget, you need to reduce it."
"Ben, I know you are my brother, but you have not repaid my money twice recently.I lend money to you.I love you.
Hello. It may be difficult to argue about these. But even though they are difficult, those money conversations are absolutely necessary.
In my next book, I discussed seven money habits necessary for my life, "Love your life, not their life." One of them is like this: even if it is difficult to talk about money
Yes, this is not easy. You may have tears or 'speech'. But in the end, this is one of the habits you have to practice in order to establish a healthy relationship with money.
Remember that you can not control other people's reactions when you have a difficult discussion. You should not be mean or insulting - only firmly rational. After that, the situation will be out of hand. You should not feel guilty, even if they feel unwell or become disgusted.
Believe me, I know that there are many questions about this topic, and many "but this" situations need to be considered. Even if it is difficult, I like to love your life, it is not two chapters to talk about money. This is the reason why you should become a habit
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Rachel Cruise is an experienced communicator and bestseller who helps Americans deal with money and learn the right way to avoid debt. Her future book "Love your life, not their life" will be released in October. Follow Rachel @ Rachel Cruze on Twitter or you can access rachelcruze.com or facebook.com/rachelramseycruze online.
It is true that life will be difficult if you have little or no money in today's world. Even if we talk about basic necessities such as health foods, clean water, clothing, housing, education, medical care, money is usually an obstacle between people's needs and desires and real money.
Many people are still considering talking about inappropriate money, but we need to change this attitude. Whether we are going to admit it or not, money has a big impact on our entire life. I did not solve this problem. So do not speak frankly about what we can call one of the most important resources for all of us. And importantly, some young people born in street intelligence and able to see the world clearly can work well in the workplace even without a university. If these people recognize that they are progressing the way to success and being able to accept official higher education responsibly, they should not be judged because they are not at college.
I find people generally difficult to talk about money. What is fascinating me is how much this situation has grown up in the black community. We may talk about credit cards here and there even for the interest rates of mortgage loans and new car loans, but it is usually unpopular to talk about investment and current business transactions. The main factor contributing to this big difference is the type of work in Black Americans. Like the financial sector, we are undervalued in the fields of science, technology, engineering and mathematics (STEM). STEM's work normally pays salaries much higher than the national average. However, the educational requirements are much higher
Last thought Even in cultures considered to be rude to talk about money, people like to talk about how much they give charity. But once they take money they seem to be less interested in where the money is, how it is distributed, and whether it has reached the help that people should provide . On the other hand, critics of the aid process point out the obvious fact that trillions of dollars of aid funds have a positive impact on the poorest of the poorest, especially in the western media I had a difficult time. its big. Given these facts, it is irrelevant to GWL to actually purchase through charity donation, not to improve the lives of the poor, and to have a sense of beauty, warmth, self-righteousness, and their life It seems to be related to self-satisfaction. Guys. But as our kind Hansen people know, charities are not.