Is There Really a Crystalliztion of Love?

Whether the basic understanding of love requires logic or emotion. Stendhal's "Crystallization of love" is based on "belief that behavior is dominated by passion and self-interest" (from past to present, page 91). The idea of ​​learning and observing love with a microscope is the attitude that Stendhal is telling the reader. In most cultures, love is seen as a passionate and unexplainable phenomenon, but in his view it is not so. The concept of Stendhal's thesis is based on his own unstable love experience.

"When you think about something you like, what you really like is not itself, but a fraction of it, but an unnecessary part.You think you like banana splitting, but you I really like the black cherries above, you think you like autumn, really like to buy pumpkin spice latte at Starbucks I think that you like Shrek, but you truly wanted Shrek and Fiona I like that clip art just sitting in. After falling in the swamp she is preparing for her wedding, and Rufus Wainwright is playing on the cover of "Hallelujah", "

You may think: this is just a psychological problem. Intention is not important. Love is love. You are wrong. That intention is the heart of love 's heartbeat. Unintentional love is another problem. In order to love, to truly love, we must give up "I". It is not not only to pray to our God but also to cover our selfish behavior with the coat. But in the deepest place. Our center of mind, our inner sea. Unless you start there, love reflects what we have never seen before.

I fear incorrect love. Poison love. Selfish love. Surface love short love. To rely on love. This is a real attachment. I do not matter, I like the performance as a couple or their needs, or "what I should do". Love has gone