Is There Life After Baby?

Is there life after the baby? Over the past few years my life involved frequent travel to the cinema, day of fishing, dancing on Saturday night, food and many other activities. On July 18th 2004 my son Andrew Martin was born. He is my wife and my first child. As many people told me during my wife's pregnancy, from the moment he was born, I began to realize that my life is changing dramatically. In the last 5 and a half months, he was on the planet and he was strongly aware that I would make many changes, some are good, some are wonderful, Some are bad.

But after my first child was born, something changed into my mind. I think all mothers agree that no one can prepare for their children. After my son was born, education did not have the same priority as before. After seven weeks maternity leave, I felt that there was no choice but to help my husband help my family, I always returned to my favorite career. I soon discovered that being a mother and being a teacher are two full-time jobs. All of them need training, giving, and patience is needed. I knew that women could totally lower these two, but it quickly exhausted me and made it beyond the ability I could deal with. In my recent article, Mama guide to overturn as an online freelancer, I can read more about my career.

If you know your mother, you know that there is life before giving birth, and then there is life. Before some mothers become mothers, they may be cute young women who are willing to help mothers who are always in trouble. Me? I am jerk. I am still in a hurry, but before I gave birth to a child I was a bastard I could not see her mother. I compiled it myself - and the iPhone did not exist yet! What am I doing?

After becoming a parent, the couple 's life expands around their little happiness. The couple became mothers and fathers All in front of "us" became "our babies". Parents give time to children directly or indirectly throughout their lifetime. It is difficult even to relax after a busy day at work because the baby is anxiously waiting to play with parents all day. For my parents, "my time" is not within the schedule. This is one of the biggest sacrifices someone made as a parent. Emotional intelligence (EQ) is more important than IQ (IQ). People who are stable emotionally are more happy than those who do not like it. Our parents changed our lives for us, but it hurt their emotional health. Some people in their lives always give them emotional reassurance. However, due to the responsibilities of their parents, they can not often meet. All these sacrifices eliminated their emotional health