Is There Any Solace For The Lonely

Are lonely people comfortable? Our culture is too civilized and we can not physically torture criminals. Therefore, solitary confinement is used as an alternative punishment for prisoners serving their time. A sedentary imprisonment seems to be a joke alone in a closed room, no one has touched for weeks. However, alienation and loneliness are very effective ways of psychological torture. Indeed, loneliness is so overwhelming that it tends to make criminals crazy. The problem of loneliness is not only affecting solitary prisoners, but also that they may overwhelm someone at any time.

When I wrote about this article on a friend Nadika (a trans female from Tamil Nadu state), she told me about her early online experience. She is young and lonely, and she has few close friends. But she answered me with a lot of our experiences: in the center of the city, rolling our Twitter timeline in a crowded train - loneliness in the crowd. The question of what is important as a meaningful speech is closely related to who is being asked - and by expanding it can escape the difficulties of ignoring. On the Indian Internet there are several jokes often mentioned by men who are online with women. "How are you?" "I am looking for frnd." These spooky people seem to be everywhere: other inbox, Twitter reference, Instagram review. But sometimes I find it a bit uncomfortable to know: are we more irritated because of their sex or Britain?

I am a lonely child. I dislike this feeling, but it drives me out and enters the embrace of nature. I learned to pay attention to subtle details, I guess everything makes sense, everything is worth deserving, and I am comforted because I can not mess it up. Mother Nature is my good mother. Clever and considerate, she makes me feel like I belong. When my field flower became weed, she could not make me laugh. She admires my devotion. When Scotty was very young, I took him to his chariot, where he brought back rocks, feathers, and pine cones. He feels the same sense of belonging, the same wonder

From there, I flew to Burlington, Vermont. So I met a deeper level of comfort. Even if you are not so ugly, comfort, you hear the most quiet whisper of nature. Birds are deep inside the conversation, even though the idea in your head is trying to say bigger than the creek passing through the backyard, and night creatures darkness with a treble voice, a quiet sky I will meet. As in Puerto Rico, Mother Nature wins in Vermont. I went through the orchard with my nephew and a small niece, hiked up a rocky cliff, overlooking many miles of green forest, the best warm apples, and homemade ice cream. We made various meals, read books for the same kids and read them again.