Invisible Gender Rules

It is difficult to accomplish the change of the invisible gender rule itself, but drastic changes to the group of people are almost impossible. For women, life, career, and family life have changed over the years. However, the women's revolution did not exclude discrimination against society, it only changed certain discrimination acts to other forms of discrimination. Fatima Mernissi wrote a short story about The Harem Within, a girl living in Harlem. yourself.

When women and men understand "invisible rules" specific to each gender, they will communicate most effectively. Study of Dr. Pat Haim 's video "Intangible Rules: Men, Women, and Teams" is a proposal proposed by the rules of intangible behavior that all adults instinctively know is itself a "culture" It shows that there is. . Therefore, men and women will act according to two different rules on "right". Therefore, natural and proper actions on gender culture seem to be confusing, harmful or mistaken for others. We often become intolerant and defensive when we do things that seem strange when we work with people of opposite sex. Even though they grew up in the same family, we do not recognize that men and women are from different cultures, being educated at the same school and living in the same country.

The two gender cultures differ in many ways. Understanding invisible rules specific to each gender will help you become a better team member or leader. It is important to remember that these are generalizations on sex behavior (based on 80% of bell curve). There are always exceptions in rules. The example given is based on what the research is communicating to us. In all cultures of the world, children are taught to be adequate adults through the game they play. As boys grow, they play baseball, basketball, soccer, police and robbers, cowboys and Indians, and wars. They learn how to compete, become aggressive, lead to victory, strategy, take risks, and hide emotions. The boys play their role in the hierarchy, learn to follow their coaches, to become leaders, and to learn to play with people they do not like.