I Have an Extremely Controlling Sister-in-Law

I have a very dominant scorpion, and now my brothers do not want to know me. Finally after 9 years of efforts, such as when my nephew appeared in front of me, when I wanted to drink tea, and when she expressed that I felt it, finally I was unacceptable I think that it is because it turned. And I now realized I was used to playing with children, helping family activities, basically ineffective things for many years.

If I have children, they want to use my daughter as a member of their game - by the way, his behavior is uncontrollable. Everyone said no to my nephew - even her own family shouted to her, I think no one has said their true views on her control behavior. She is active, interrogates, continually pays attention and demands stern criticism about what is different from herself. Their behavior at my recent wedding was just the last straw. That's because I seem to be on the verge of losing my older brother.

Your nephew is in the article "Introduction of Personality Disorder" on this website. You are explaining the dramatic character - that you want to be the focus of attention, is very controlled, is a word insult, is threatening others, and is the "queen of drama". She. She has superior rights and has the right to punish those who do not meet immediate requirements. As you mentioned, when we have a personality disorder in the family, the activities of all families must deal with her needs and problems. They use unlimited actions to control the people around them, how they treat others without guilt and regret - even if they are children -

Your brothers are trapped. Like his family, he is trying to avoid emotional abuse by words - whether it's for him or for children. It is not that you have lost your brother - he is just in an emotional prison. I encourage you to read my articles on love and Stockholm syndrome and read the comments the reader has left on the blog post linked to the paper. This article provides a strategy for keeping in touch with your brothers and will not cause problems for him or his children. The families concerned are often "relaxed" and act as if they are covering the ceiling. Strong contact with him urges his wife to retaliate, he avoided it at all sacrifices.

Personality disorders are around us, accounting for 9% to 15% of the adult population. When we have a personality disorder in our family, it is like breeding a shark in a family pool. We need to pay attention and emphasize the safety of the whole family. At the same time, set boundaries to prevent further abuse and operation. You can find many similar situations by clicking on the link labeled "personal obstacle" in the sidebar of this page.

I will take my nephew as an example. While the audience clapped their hands, it was unfair for her and her parents (my in-law) to sit in the trophy to get all these honor and concerns. In fact, perhaps this is fair. When I got over shame, I started thinking about everything she experienced; her company put her up, she has been unemployed for a while; she experienced a painful divorce . When I am fired, I invest in so much work and I do not have a salary. Can I exchange my good marriage for her terrible marriage? More importantly, I chose to stay with my children at home. Other people are not tormenting me. Why am I dissatisfied with this?

My nephew has no cat. When I suggested that this is not a good idea, I answered the answer "She likes it" because they think cats are out and "I like it." The poor cat is gone now, my nephew says she thinks she went somewhere to die. Of course, I do not believe it. She could not remove herself either because she was attacked or the collar was clogged. Of course I will not comment on my nephew, but I hope they do not keep other pets. I have two dogs and two cats. My cat will not go out, my dog ​​will always be taken away when we go out. My pet is a child like my fur and I should not let them go out. Unfortunately, my nephew's cat is a very nice girl.