I don’t know what to do with my life

Have you thought about this question? The more you confuse this question, you will be dissatisfied with your life.

The problem is that it is too big a problem, almost no one can answer it (in most cases it excludes a few people with some magnificent calls relating to religion and politics and a lifelong vision) ). For most of us, this is not a useful question; it's too big and overwhelming. This is some more useful question to ask yourself:

Please select one or two every week. Then collect your answers within a couple of months. And ask your own question; these are just examples that may not be relevant to you.

Let's concrete your question and explore what you want to do in the short term, medium term, and long term.

If you answered "Do not know" the answer to a question, will not you make the most of what you are doing until you understand it?

I can not change the world, I do not know where to start from, I hope that someone will tell me what to do. I thought "Someone needs to solve this problem" when I was waiting for a hero, a person stronger than my life to solve this problem. ",

For those I do not know, I experienced the first winter of my life last year. I came from a tropical country, and you have trouble trusting the Europeans, but we do not have winter. There are not many things to do as "safe" clean streets or bike lanes, but I am enjoying the sun all the year round. I arrived in Milan in September, it is very beautiful. I was surprised that all the leaves are blown by the wind, spectacular sunset, pizza, pasta, and a lot of ice cream. Romantic like a movie. New things began to happen, and his voice was as clear as the sky. I am very convinced that he is a leader, holding my hand to comfort me, washing me from my past, cleansing my heart everyday. His words appeared on that page and promised me a lot of wonderful and incomprehensible things. I thought he was ready to do what I asked of me.

What I'd like to explore and what will change in my life. There are several time-consuming practices, but I do not add anything to my life. I feel uncomfortable with sexual behavior, I do not know the reason. But if you receive treatment - I will be treated as crazy (DID), and as a child I will be replaced with fear. ___ Even people who do not have dear trauma, physical or sexually abused people will develop another illness. The origin of this point is speculative, there are very powerful and complex literature in the field of infant attachment research, and clearly points out the attachment pattern called D type attachment as predictor of separation of adults. Other studies by Karlen Lyons-Ruth suggest that separation of adults is best predicted by a 2: 1 ratio of mental abuse and "hidden trauma" of physical / sexual abuse.