I AM ME AND I AM OKAY

Like me there is no one in the world. Because I chose by myself, everything I got was real. I have everything about myself: my body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice. All my behavior, whether for others or for me, has my own fantasy, dreams, hopes and fears. I own all my own, so I have all victories and achievements, all my failures and mistakes.

I can know each other. By doing this, I love me and I can become close with me in all parts of me. I do not know anything else, but as long as I am friendly and love myself, I bravely want to find a solution to solve the problem and find a solution.

But whatever I say, what I do, I am healthy and sound, and my thoughts and feelings are realistic for me anytime. In the future, if it seems that some of the results of thought and emotion are not appropriate, we can abandon the inappropriate part, preserve the rest, and invent a new one for the thrown away.

I can see, hear, feel, think, say, and can do. I have an orderly tool to make it orderly, productive and meaningful for me to survive, to get close to others, and to me and the outside of me.

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The way to self love has many ways, many questions and lots of answers just like a trip with high tides and valleys. And I experienced many ways to reach my current position. As Virginia Satir said in her poetry of pride, I am very kind with me. This book of poetry is also a source of inspiration for my book. Emergings: About loving yourself, accepting yourself, having high self esteem, understanding life mainly

I am writing this article and I broke the silence I felt like silence I could not understand. Actually, I did a good job so that other people think "OK." Life is not all good. Things are not going well. When my family guaranteed me "things get better", I did not believe them. I am struggling. Well, after talking to high school students and college friends about their university experience, I know that many of them work hard. Several of them are currently struggling. In the case of high school graduates who will be new students in the fall of 2015 or current university students - Please be aware that the challenges facing serious emotions at university are natural and ordinary. This concept may sound useless or even clichés, but for me it seems that everyone around me has made friends, has good grades, and is doing well. Struggle in your own way

On the surface, I am very good at it. Inside, I am still struggling. Every accomplishment involves a stage of confidence. I messed up things, but I feel good on a good day, bad day is terrible. People around me keep telling me that I am doing very well, but for me, it seems that all the achievements are the result of chance luck. I did some research online, hehe! These symptoms are conditions called "pretending syndrome" (which is sometimes called a slightly too strong disease), and even if you have a lot of evidence to prove you are talented and proficient, I think that it is inappropriate and incompetent. The advantage of this situation is that you will not be satisfied with your success, so you will keep you more intensive and focused. But you feel that everything you do is covering your anxiety.