How much control do you have over your life?

In my young stubborn days, I say that I can control my life by myself. Even if my mistake accumulates, my immune system declines, my hair turns white and my joint pain keeps elasticity (?), I am planning my legacy.

So, trying to think positively to make better choices, many factors from inside and outside are starting to accumulate on me.

Even if I agree that we have control, we humans have the ability to make decisions, so the types of decisions we can make have more power, money and resources It is much lower than things.

For example in Hong Kong college students, essential students in the university need to pass the Putonghua exam as a graduation requirement in order to explain that most of us can not control.

Yes, these students can choose to show or not to show. However, this choice is far less than the choice of the university government. In addition, we may decide to control events in our lives, but those with more power, money and resources are limiting our freedom in a threatening way I can.

Therefore, we can better control our lives only when there is more power, money and resources. This process can take a defensive or aggressive approach

Having external control points is associated with worse life outcomes. If you have an external control point and you want more control over your environment, you can first challenge your beliefs about personal control of the situation. Please find out a little that you can influence and make your life easier. Benjamin has high tolerance for ambiguity. He is not worried when he does not know what to do or behave in a particular situation. He thinks fast and can see things from various perspectives. He does not need strict guidelines to lead to success. Instead, he found the best course of action for himself.

If you feel that you can control your own life, you have overcome the first obstacle to creating a change in your environment. If you feel that you can not control your life yourself, it is important to regain control. When I am not in charge of my life, I do not feel well. Suggesting a list by answering the following questions will help you find ways to regain control of your life. You deserve good health care. If you have a good health insurance plan, this will not be a problem. Otherwise, or if access to healthcare is restricted, please check the free or paying slips available in the community. To check available options, please call the local health department, health facility, or regional hospital. You may find it difficult to get good health care, but it is worth the effort to get what you need and deserve.