How do most people react in life-or-death situations?

"... Our findings suggest that human behavior in life and death situations is best expressed by" for everyone ". "(Hat Tip: BPS)

Since the sinking of the Titanic, the social norm of "female and child first" (WCF) gives advantageous advantage to women's survival over men in maritime disasters, the captain and the crew prevail over passengers It is recognized. We analyzed databases of 18 maritime disasters over the 3rd century and covered fate of over 15,000 people in more than 30 countries. Our results provide a unique depiction of maritime disasters. Compared to men, women have obvious survival disadvantages. The survival rate of the captain and the crew is considerably higher than that of the passengers. Also, the captain has the right to enforce normative actions, that there is no correlation between the duration of the disaster and the impact of social norms, when women occupy a small part of ship replenishment What goes wrong, there is no effect on the relative survival rate of voyage women before the disaster; since the World War I, gender difference in survival has decreased, but women were more disadvantaged in the wrecks of the UK It was. In summary, our findings suggest that human behavior in life and death situations is best captured in the expression "for everyone" for themselves.

"No matter how you train you will not know how people react regardless of life or death.I do not know how people respond when a gunshot sounds.I do not know how people do this The reaction is shot next to them, you do not know how people respond when their work is to shoot people they know or teach. You just do not know. - Matt Martin, 20th February 2018

Most people react rather than react. When someone does something or says a harmful thing, we react without evaluating the result of my reaction. Now we have two people who are reacting. The reaction does not cause change or growth. In contrast, reactions require the ability to think about how metacognition, thinking and behavior affect others. This is emotional intelligence, and this is what people have. Since the change comes from breaking up unhealthy patterns, please try to do the opposite of what you normally do. When you close it please say that. Shake someone, please shut up. If you vomit orally, please try this. Please see how it affects others. Many times, the opposite will resolve the conflict and change the dynamics soon. Whenever you notice this, you always insist on doing this and the relationship will change slowly.

How do you change your behavior? This reaction is useful in situations where life and death are important. If you face big animals only with teeth, less time than you think about it, more time you run. However, in social situations, the response is not that useful. If you face the boss, the time you think will be shortened, you will run around the corridor and hit the face. Your brain is a magical machine so you can organize yourself to make a shortcut to what you do most often. Therefore, while the mind is gone, you are likely to react in the way you feel uncomfortable while others do not like it.