Have parents made their kids too fragile for the rough-and-tumble of life?

This is a familiar chorus. Since old people simply do not understand the situation of university students, they lost their way and sympathize with young people. In the late 1960s, Ronald Reagan established his politics.

I have read two articles this week. One makes me sad and the other makes me angry. Psychologists Lenore Skenazy and Jonathan Haidt, one of the sad things is "fragile generation: bad policy and paradoxical child rearing is too secure for children to succeed", angry, "Millennial generation : Communism settles down "Sean Langlois. The impression I formed was rebounding in my head for a week, but even this afternoon, Bowe Bergdahl's verdict came out and discovered that connection Suddenly all the stories are summarized in the trajectory of the causal relationship of young Americans life lines.We nurture famous children ("fragile generation"), they grow to adults and they Maintain childlike dependence on their helicopter parents and worship the principles of socialism and Marxism. You, the government, live. Does he even know the result of what he is doing? Does this happen to him?

In October last year, the New York Times changed their backyards to a well-designed community game space and announced an article on Silicon Valley entrepreneurs who can "risk risk without adult supervision." There is no doubt that many readers nodded with a smile, advocating outdoor games (allowing children to get out of digital equipment) and public spaces (make them to be together at any time!) People are standing listening to those who are terrible helicopters to parenting practice together

If you are looking at preschool children at the school playground between 2 and 4 years of age and learn about the driving force of health games, you will scream, chase, scream, and fight anarchy. It is noisy. In that rude game, the kids will adjust themselves - they learn to share, and even if they are hit hard, they hit others about elimination, tolerance and social subtleness There will be no. Socialization requires the ability to share and feel others. This is mainly learned in an open game environment.

Do I (and others) teach my son's personality and discipline through rude games? The boys are faced with this wrestling, jumping, blowing, and rolling. Men are also facing it, and men are more involved than men. Rough play is important for boys' design and should be encouraged when appropriate. Study yourself, your son and your house and make sure that the time of the game is also the time of character development. You may say, "My son likes rudeness very much, but I can not cross the boundary to make people cry." As long as you develop properly, you must keep that boundary.