We advise you to forgive each other and give it up. Forgiveness does not mean that you feel bad again, but simply means to give up feelings of resentment and anger. You can be careful of this person's expectation in the future, not actively indignant, you will be the most profitable person. On the other hand, please do not show goodwill to your "friends and enemies". Retaliation will prevent your spiritual peace of mind - even if you use force or combat, the anger of security will not change.
Forgiveness is overcome or abandonment of wrath and revenge. In a sense, we can remove our revenge by forgetting the pain of the past and removing past damage. However, this does not mean that you need to forget forgiveness, nor does it mean that the two concepts are the same. Past mistakes mean recalling our suffering and blasphemy, and maybe remember who gave it to us. If forgetting becomes part of forgiveness, both sides of a particular memory - wrong action and wrong action - are completely erased. However, forgiveness is an act that is recognized as being wrong, that is, a response to an act that the victim remembers. I feel anguish and revenge against this wrong behavior.
Introduction: Have you ever heard the phrase "Forgotten to forget"? I tried it, but did you find that it is difficult to "forgive" or "forget"? Maybe, does this feel like you are truly forgiven or forgotten? In many years of service, I worked with a lot of people who have suffered forgiveness. Even if they say that they hurt them and forgave those who tried to put them in the past, it seems that the past constantly returns and repeats itself. As a result, many people fail, live with feelings of guilt and shame. The relationship is still nervous, broken or even alienated. We are completely sick and sometimes it becomes very confusing. The problem is, "If I forgive someone, is that I need to build a relationship with them?" Or "If they are abusive or addictive, we will keep in touch with God and me I will ask you. " It is designed to solve these problems and to answer some of them from a Bible point of view