Forget Yourself, and Look to the Needs of Others

"Do not be absorbed in getting your own interests, forget yourself long enough to lend a helping hand." (Philippians 2: 4 MSG)

The starting point for all happiness is to distract attention from yourself. If you think about yourself, you will become a very miserable person. If you really want to be happy in your life, you must be concerned about the needs of the people around you.

Paul gave Timothy 2: 20-21 as an example of a letter to Philippians: "Nobody has real interest in you like Timothy." Plan (LB)

Most people are concerned about their plans and are not searching for the interests of others. Most people do not get up in the morning and think about what others are doing at first. Most people care about their own problems. And that's why most people are not satisfied with their lives!

If you want to become one of those rare and selfless people, you must change your attention. You need to transfer your attention from yourself to others. This is not a natural thing, so this is something you need to learn to do.

Since I did not pay attention I have to admit that I missed the needs of the people I love over and it made me sad. I am not interested in them. I did not transfer my focus to other parts of the room. I missed their needs because I did not pay attention to their needs. This makes me very sad.

Do not be sad about the opportunity you missed, please deliberately depart from yourself and the needs of others. You will be happy by serving other people to serve others.

"Do not be absorbed in getting your own profits, please forget to spend time enough to lend a helping hand" (Philippians 2: 4 MSG)

Do you have something to ignore in someone's life? What can you do today to transfer your attention to helping that person?

Put your own need first. - Stop delaying your needs. The most painful thing is to lose yourself in the process of loving someone. Yes, rescue others; but also help yourself. If you have time to do something important to you according to your enthusiasm, that moment is now. Every week we learn new skills and practice. - independence is the key to a healthy and productive life. In order to be independent, people have to master a basic set of skills, and more or less they must jack in all industries. Contrary to what you learned at school, Jack in any industry can cope with life better than a professional master. Also, it is fun to learn new skills. Look at this article, this article, and a book

You are perfect: If you think about it, you need to improve yourself You felt that you need to solve some problems about yourself and ask for guidance from others . You can learn new skills, experience new things, and plant new ideas and ideas in your heart. But those who did all these are still perfect. As prosecution against someone, do not get confused about getting experienced without being able to be. We compare ourselves with others, their experiences and abilities. Compare "where" here only to "think" that something is wrong here, and you must change yourself to grow by following some smart people It will not. Life will inevitably teach you, why should you make yourself more difficult?

It is very easy to get rid of what can not be started. Please forget your passion for a moment. Please forget everything that needs perfection. Indeed, please tell yourself that no one is reading, seeing, or discovering the first attempt. Do it pretend to be just the experiment - the first of a thousand people - what fucking interests or excitement do you do best like you like you. Not everyone can use this technique. I am using it to persuade myself as many people exercise everyday. "I told you to jump 5 minutes to the treadmill, after all it will eventually be 30 or 45."