"It is not a maker of planning and commitment, it provides a small amount of loyalty, which is most likely to be achieved best and lastingly." - Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe
Many people see life as a pyramid and the bottom people serve people above them. They are envious of the top people who believe that happiness and happiness can be gained through service. Therefore, they work hard. They are eagerly looking for the world's top imagination pyramid. They desperately pursued money, fame or power and made them to occupy a higher position in the emotions of the world. Unfortunately, they often do not realize that their pursuit is misguided until they sacrifice countless good gifts and simple pleasures.
I intended to choose to help other people overturn their lives. We found great freedom in helping others, rather than asking for our own interests. To serve others will bring freedom. You can say no to the promotion of contemporary culture and prestigious games. Our lives are less stressful, less anxious and less frustrated. We started to feel more fulfilling, more complete, more active. Living for others abolishes our request to completely recruit orders. It will be a burden for us when we can no longer master the other person in search of strength. True happiness lies in choosing service, not service.
Open your eyes and see the need around you. People who need your help are around you - your home, your neighbors and your workplace. The first and most important step is to pay attention to them.
2. Do something to make them succeed. Even if you do not have all the answers and facts, you jump into it as much as possible. I refuse to use excuses. "But I do not know what to do" or "I can help tomorrow" Evaluate their needs, provide help, and follow up immediately.
3. I am happy to pay the price. Service to others always needs something - sometimes money, sometimes, sometimes, sometimes reputation, and in most cases energy. Please look at the price. The payment method does not matter. And enjoy the ROI
Do not expect a return value. I remove the question that motivates so many people today. Help does not expect repayment. And you will receive countless rewards with joy and satisfaction else.
People constantly pursuing peaks have left their pursuits behind. But we are not needed. We can quickly experience the permanent happiness of helping others.
I am not a person who supports a negative attitude toward happiness. I experienced the development of my life. The situation is not friendly, but I will be happy. I also helped other people. I know that illness helps unhappy people become happy and I can not help clinical depression patients through speech therapy. Those people need medical assistance. It's not just about having to compare yourself with an idol's celebrity neighbors. When your celebrity cheers in the crowd, thousands of fans line up for signature, and you try to imagine them instead of them. If a celebrity travels with a private jet and is surrounded by a beautiful girl, you will feel regret
These people can not be luxurious, but at least they can help you understand the essence of life ... people who need help are there, you just look and this We need to experience unexpected happiness. It is very difficult to imagine ... finding happiness is not to serve but to choose service. !
Many people grow without seeing or experiencing happiness. I am one of them. I was really thinking that happiness was happening to others when I was young, but regret that it is not mine. Some people are lucky, others are not. I will meet other people, I know they are doing good friendship, romance, great work and a good life, and I feel that I am struck by a bus on the other night every night . I often feel sad and lonely