Erich Fromm’s The Art of Loving

After reading "Art of Love" of Erich Fromm's "Art of Love" Erich Fromm, I learned more about the true meaning of love. Fromm's book puts love in the field of vision. He started with some facts on how people handle love. The confusion between how they are loved, the purpose of love, the initial experience of falling in love and the permanent state of love has had a great impact on me.

"Is this true love still obsessive?" This question ignores this. From the beginning, obsession, obsession (or immature love) is all the way forward to the path to mature love. Erich Fromm distinguishes the two from "art of love" and points out that charm is to love and to love people, but true love is about loved things. To make you crazy is conditional love. What you did for me is that you are very interesting, you love so much, you are so sexy, you love you for not being a vampire But as the object becomes fun and not sexy What happens? What happens when he becomes a vampire? So angels and buffies rejected him shouting, but when she had the opportunity to kill him and have an opportunity to understand her fate as a vampire killer, she missed it deliberately, and , Angie killed his old life symbolically and entered a new one at Buffy

Recently I am reading the philosophical theme of love and its contents. I especially like Erich Fromm's book "The art of love". He thinks love is art, just like learning musical instruments and crafts, such as woodworking, painting, and medicine and engineering studies. It is not passive, it is not something we are caught but something to learn and do. People lose the art of love, he says, we now regard power, success, money, and influence as the most important priority in our life and we love the ladder at the bottom Because I learn things. For many people, this is an inconspicuous fact that you truly understand what love is and that it is lost by many people around us.