Emotional Abuse Leaves no Physical Marks

Emotional abuse does not leave a real trace. I can not see it with the naked eye. No one can avoid emotional abuse, it can happen anywhere, anytime. I am a victim of mental abuse, and the scars are still fresh. Both good and evil come from abuse, I think that I am an educator who raises consciousness, not a victim of compassion, justice and tears. Emotional abuse can be any factor that hinders the growth of children. I constantly disappoint someone or fail to express love and affection to my child.

Physical and mental abuse often involves strict child rearing. Physical abuse includes excessive spanking, beatings, whipping and so on. Rigid parents leave children with visible signs including bruises and scars. Physical abuse also leaves emotional traces in the child's heart, causing fear, confusion, loneliness. When using physical abuse, the anger of parents will expand until they will lose violence; worse, it is not about parents' anxiety or problems. Strict parents insist that they use this punishment as it is their parents do to them, so it must be correct, okay. Physically abused families are interested in their physical safety (Laaser, 2004, p. 100)

How do you become you (and why do you do what you do): How does child's abuse approach weaken children?

Emotional abuse is undetermined. Unlike physical abuse, there are no visible traces to detect. But it certainly is as serious as it may be as dangerous as it is. Scarring emotional abuses may be more difficult to see, but they are persistent. By writing my own experience, I hope that other people can recognize what they are doing and help them to approach abusers who left them. I know that the way that happens to me (and having a wonderful support system among my family, friends, and excellent therapists) is studying online spiritual abuse. When you read someone's story and think about yourself, you can make everything different, "It sounds like I am experiencing". So, this may be an unpleasant conversation, but I have it here now.