Correspondence to Footprints: What we can do for rape, victims, survivors, and rape is devastating to the victims. I think that this sentence should be done separately, underlined and bold. As a society, it is most important that we understand and understand this information deeply. For this reason, I again declare that rape is devastating to its victims. 30% of rape victims will consider suicide. I will seek medical treatment a little more. It is slightly less than investing in self defense in some way.
If we become victims, it will make our lives more valuable: rape survivor, gun survivor, car accident survivor etc. You can live these days. If you want to change your identity again, you can request some of them. However, not only makes us feel worth but our position of victims brings calm attention and solicitation from others. We think that it is almost impossible for humans to concentrate faithfully to others outside a rather narrow self, so it will never be sincere. But we think it will help us. The status of the victims makes us kind. As you can see for the reasons above, it will never be satisfying.
Many people do not want to use the word "victim" because disgrace surrounding rape is very strong. I was told that there were no victims, but I was told that "rape survivors" will come in. Well, I become a rebel today (like most of my days) and I tell you that there are actually victims. If you are raped, you are a victim. Whether you like it or not, this is a simple fact. Unfortunately, according to an estimate, nearly a quarter of adult women experience some form of sexual assault during their lifetime (Center for Disease Control and Prevention, 2012). It feels like a victim. But as time goes by, psychotherapy and personal growth, raped women can feel their own ability again and eventually feel like "ordinary" self. It's difficult, but all these will promote growth
When rape survivors are suffering from actions and attitudes condemned by the victim, their experiences may feel like "secondary attacks" or "secondary rape." Madigan and Gamble, 1991; Martin) and Powell, 1994; Williams, 1984). In many cases, these behaviors are open to the public. Because the staff of the system clearly requires the attacker to take responsibility for the attack, doubts the legitimacy of the story of the survivor or minimizes the severity of the crime (Madigan & Gamble, 1991). In other cases, this recurrence occurs when rape survivors are denied the services they need or require (Campbell & Bybee, 1997; Campbell et al., 2001; National Victim Center, 1992).