Because we are all defective people, as people, parents can not truly understand everything about children in order to pick the best child for their children. We are doing our best if they are young and if we love them in a healthy way.
I am seeing this from a Christian perspective, and we believe that children should respect and respect their parents regardless of whether they are old or young. But we also believe this - if the child becomes an adult, the relationship should change. If our work is well done and not perfect, our children have a rich assortment tool box that makes them an adult and can make their own choices.
The truth, I do not know that my six children are the best after adulthood. We became coaches in our lives - only when asked for advice. Occupation, partners, all these decisions should be an adult 's child' s choice. why? It is because I do not know what is best for them. We believe they give them the moral / spiritual principle of the toolbox they live in, but these young people should use them.
Those who manage their parents need to respect themselves when making decisions about their lives, but please do not leave them tightly. This does not mean that you do not love your parents or respect your parents, but you must accept the choices you make in important areas. A proper parent / child border is the beginning of a good health relationship.
My husband and I may not agree on the particular life choices our children did, but they do not decide what we did but they know that they will accept the results . They have unconditional love, but the main work that we led them has been completed. Providing young people with a sense of freedom to make a choice in life is part of our parents' job. The best opportunity for parents to occasionally return our children to a hideout is to reach out to them when the time is right.
I find that adults are not necessarily good at taking care of themselves, but I think all parents want to be the best for their children. You never had the same conversation as an adult: quitting smoking, quitting alcohol, reducing your weight, it is exhausting. Instead, you have the ability to shape actions quickly and teach children about health and physical health in a fun and safe environment. For example, some parents do not want to take antibiotics for children with ear infections. I asked them to tell me their concerns, and we can discuss them through them. What are the advantages and risks? But when they need to listen and share what I think is the best interest of medical professionals, I will be real too.
Many Chinese Americans hate parents. I am criticizing the Central American community about not doing much more about mental health problems. I know a lot of Chinese adults, but my parents became adults because they are very strict. Many Chinese Americans hate their parents because they did not lead their childhood, and many are unrelated to their parents today. Many of these parents insist that they only want their children to have an extraordinary life. Chinese parents want to ensure the future life of their children, but I think that Chinese parents need to know their children better.