I am a better person for my parents' divorce. Of course, you think that I should have such a profound reason soon, but I believe that divorce is a positive response to a negative situation. Marriage of tearing the two is never considered a happy thought, but my experience has highlighted the advantages of this unpopular idea. If it is not due to parents' separation, I will never accept to change my life, understand the person's character, or cherish others.
Of course, not everyone thinks so. Some people always worry about using this power to do bad things like crime. But people always do bad things. They do them now, they always do it. It is funny for everyone to make the system inconvenient to welcome these people. It will never work. Your central infrastructure will be destroyed like your money. You do not want war, but you can not do anything about it. The house disappeared, friends and family died, the bank was bombed, killed, driven out, wandering, becoming homeless, became helpless. To make matters worse, nobody wants you. The world moves from the open border to the wall of the building. Not popular anywhere, you can not stay in the place you are, and you bankrupt
It is not always bad to experience treachery, abandonment, loneliness. This is painful but not fatal. In retrospect, if I make friends with those people, my high school experience will be very different. I may not have the same determination and motivation to achieve World of Warcraft goals - this game is a hobby and not an escape
When I say that bad things always happen, I do not want to be frivolous. But bad things always happen. Bad is always happening. They happen far away, they happen with your own neighbor (good things always happening, but I have written this elsewhere). I did some surveys (Wikipedia), and I learned that Serenity Prayer always knew that it was not really its original form. Theologian Reinhold Niebuhr has several versions over the years, but one of his later drafts has subtle changes.