Some couples are very happy and some are not happy. The success rate of American marriage has declined; 50% of marriage does not come to an end. Fifty percent of all today's marriages end their "lifelong" promise by divorce. In order to find a solution and explanation, researchers looked at seeing happy couples and unfortunate couples throughout all stages of the relationship. They discovered that many of the characteristics of the dating relationship will continue to get married.
Happy people's characteristics: Extroversion, self-esteem, optimism and personal management is a characteristic of happy life. Twin and adoption studies have shown that some of these features like extroversion are influenced by heredity as well as happiness themselves. Like cholesterol, happiness is genetically affected, but it is also suitable for will management. Happy people relationship: Humans are social animals and need to belong obviously. Isolated confinement is painful for most people. I have a close friend and I am very happy to be with you. Since 1972, a survey of over 42,000 Americans by the National Opinion Center showed that 40% of married adults are very happy, and 23% of unmarried adults. Marriage happiness differentials occur in other countries as well as men and women
They say that communication is the key to happiness and marriage. But is it really like this? If this is true, we will see a happy couple around, there is almost no divorce. The essence of a happy married life is not communication, but respect. Yes, I respect you. Make all the communication you want, but if one of the partners loses respect for others. Marriage is destined to fail. Do not love. You can exist for you like a friend, but you may not love that friend. Attraction is love. To love someone, you must first be attracted to that person. Attraction - body and emotion. You can not be fascinated by those you do not respect. Never open to your spouse in a way that does not respect you. Never share what you do not respect