Codependency is the Key to a Happy Family Life

This article is aimed at discussing how sharing of trust can bring happiness to family life. Discussion overview: In dysfunctional households, sharing dependencies can affect parents (one or both) or children. Among these families, members do not accept the problems they face, but rather establish a mechanism for coexistence with them. These mechanisms include talking about the problem, ignoring and denying the problem, not faced with problems, nurturing distrust, and avoiding difficult feelings.

Dependencies: Some parent-child relationships are interdependent; children should take care of their parents, especially when their parents are disabled or eventually ill. Therefore, children are responsible for making their parents happy, solving family problems, and even running the daily lives of their families. They may also have their parents' needs in front of them and have independent personality when they grow up. This is the fact that child rearing is not easy. However, as a mature responsible adult, you need to build a healthy and loving relationship with your child. But if your child has serious problems and you can not handle it yourself, please let me know that you have the help at hand. Consult a professional consultant to help your child and yourself

My childhood was a perfect storm of dysfunction and caused my dependence today. Since I was very young, I have witnessed family dependent behavior. In any case, how to work requires care of men and their families. Therefore, the actions I learned are inherited from generation to generation. That leads to the situation. This is obvious to me when I grew up in this environment, and when doing such abnormal behavior. This is how you behave in relation. This is what you do. My first husband and I immediately fell into this pattern. He is an alcoholic who spiritually abused me. Please forgive him for abusing me, I am involved in this abuse. I do not know what is different, so I accepted abuse. This is love for me. This is what I knew I saw when I was young.

Families usually come from alcohol and other dysfunctional families. And it has a tough role and behavior pattern, and pretending to be a "happy family" can not be themselves. These children have little personal identity, but they focus on their needs. They are excellent in dealing and consideration, but I always want to follow or to please other people, I want to control and operate others. This can lead to illness and depression, and personal problems are getting worse, and these problems have never been solved completely. The owner of the code wants to know why they can not form a satisfying relationship and why things often cause errors for them.