Children of parents classified as “tiger” have worse grades, are more depressed

> "I am not what you want - I am not Chinese, I do not want to be Chinese, why can not you pass your mind? I hate the violin I am my life I hate the relationship with Ruru of the crisis, Kai, and finally, thanking God, raised a white flag.

When I read this, I began to cry. I have tears in my eyes now. But I am not surprised

A few years ago, I announced my opinion about HN, how horse and how it is basically a child abuse It is still with me, even if I am in my 30s, for me .

My mother did this to me, I have some good, firm faults. Continuing pressure, college resume fills the horse, and I do not care about extracurricular activities (if you like them, you will be honored, but most of these things are enthusiastic about this There is none). Everything I did was not enough, I could not do a busy work, I was constantly being compared to a certain child, being parade to brag about my last name etc.

Then I did something unacceptable. I graduated from college. I got fat - even worse! And she grew beard. She told me I was completely jealous and I do not want it. It is my fault. When she said, I think she was around 25 years old, since then I have seen her three times.

My father did not do. Perhaps Eldon's parents did not think his GPA was high. Perhaps Eldon's parents did not emphasize the results. Perhaps Eldon may not have quieted or gotten worse when returning to the level below class C in the exam. Perhaps Eldon has the same strict parent as myself, which is why he desperately desires to attract my attention. Eldon stood before and handed me a piece of paper. He wrote 10 questions and his multi-choice answer on his draft paper. The bottom word will help me appeal the perfect middle school handwriting. Eldon also included a tight face. When I think about the pros and cons of helping my classmates, my swinging pencil appears above the draft.

I am writing this article because I know that more and more parents are working hard to cope with the way mainstream education makes children fail. Family education is on the rise, and because of the large amount of homework, high expectations and goals like SAT stand out in their lives, more children become uneasy, depressed To do. Needless to say about Steiner (Waldorf)'s education, I think that many parents have never heard of it. I think it may be a viable alternative to mainstream education and may be beneficial to many children who have failed in the current domestic institution. We insist that the educational system can meet the needs of all people in the classroom, but there is no "universal" approach to education. This is absolutely impossible, but this system will always have casualties.

We did not create a brave new world, but to accomplish sacred children. If you do not allow children to go well at school, the danger of keeping the hotbeds and tigers can lead to homework resistance, mathematical insecurity, lack of reading motivation, lack of confidence, loss of sleep, divorce of sleep and parents . But now is the time for parents to recover their childhood not carefree for their children and enjoy child rearing again. Parents need to stop raising their children. In principle, it is necessary to hit everyone in the class and improve the ranking of the school. Or, it is better than other countries in world education ranking.