Can you convince me that you are worth being friends with?

Imagine: This is a nice winter afternoon when you see Netflix while you eat a big piece of delicious potato chips on the bed. You are very comfortable, the last thing you want to do is to move.

But since you really like this friend and like your company (this time is not right), you feel bad and you have to clean the toilet and the cell phone enters the plane. The entire mode time

Right now, I am not that friend. If you send the text (this is actually here, I can not think of it at first), I am hiding in bed with eating French fries, but now I am in the office. It will not be disturbed. In fact, I may reply and say awesome ah, Thank you for this wonderful idea. This is more fun than trying to socialize. Talk later!

I deserve to be with my friends, because I do not need to lie to me or make a silly excuse to make me feel better - if you try it, I will watch. I will not easily disturb or disturb you easily. If you do not want to hang out, it's cool.

(Also, given the fact that we both want to get on with each other, I always have some interesting plans, because we use mobile phones and we all pretend to have a good time Whether or not, it is not as embarrassing as sitting on the sofa, I usually recommend restaurants, movies, bowling.

So you can not convince your friends to play with you. Perhaps you go to game shops, find parties, find online groups to play through reddit / forums / other ways ... you could be the only unpleasant place on the table. Suddenly you are laughing at the sight of what you are saying, and when everyone has social errors including the cross-sectional features of the table you took I guess. Joke If you are the one behind the screen of GM, you may have to ask questions about "Normal" (or rather Caucasian / Exclusion / Male / Straight / Other) about your NPC not. Tell the player why something can be uncomfortable or exclusive

Coping strategy: There is no value to convince you to go out. This is rarely a really popular way as most of us like it. If you are afraid of your chances of meeting friends across the city, you can always try to convince yourself that your food will be disappointing and your friends are not that funny. Coping strategy: adopt different viewpoints. For example, companies often say that traffic deprives customers. Early this year, UCLA sports director believes that the traffic was due to the low percentage of male basketball teams. But this is just one way to see attendance problems. Another reason is that UCLA needs to do better to turn more people working near campus into college basketball fans.

If I only give advice to you, it is "I know your worth". Please convince yourself for the value for a much longer time than you try to convince others. If you do not see other people, how can you let others see your value? can not. In fact, the world seems to reflect well what you are projecting. Therefore, it is very important to determine the trust you deserve. Based on the fact that you lower your head at the end of the day and you know that you are doing your best, you are doing enough. Your worth today is far beyond what you can learn today.