Can Betrayal Be Justified?

Question from Facebook: I can not tolerate betrayal. In my opinion, I understand that people have problems, but we have grown up together and experienced it over and over. I turned inside the stomach. What can I do?

A: It says that you will not judge before you get into that particular situation. You have to enter him and transfer all the inner qualities of him to his state. Then you will see if he can take another action

Just like him, you will find that if you are in exactly the same situation you will take the same action. If you assume all of these, his quality and environment, what is the difference between you and the two? There is no obvious difference. Therefore, we can not condemn or insult against anyone. I also say, I love you

A: No In our opinion people are betraying my self-interest, so I am looking forward for a different behavior from him.

Question: So, is it all depends on whether I can really respond to the situation he is facing?

A: A person is not a weak person. He does not exist! He has no one. He can not control himself. The illusion of always "rotating" us is like giving us freedom

Question: Suppose there is a person near you. How do you relate to him? Can you forgive him?

A: That's it. For anyone, close range or long distance. I am not moved, angry or surprised by the relationship with people. I will not pay attention to anyone, please do not expect anyone other than the Creator. Then, somehow I can lead myself to offer him some kind of communication from some aspect, and look at the gift.

Answer: From creator to people. There is no other way. In other words, it is not right to argue whether a person is doing something or acting in some way. He is not!

A: Is there any other way? of course. The way the Creator rules over him, the way he leads is the way I know this person. This is the relationship between me and the Creator.

In my opinion, betrayal can not be justified. We do not want to reach the top, but we love each other and we respect each other because we want to be respected. Ironically, I find that I betray you most is a person who knows how to keep a secret. Even though they believe in them, people are not so smart. They noticed that they were wrong, it was too late. In my experience, that is why we have asked for revenge is the one who caused the problem first, so we cited the top of the food chain. Popularity, money, value-free reliability and power etc. Please consider only places without length. Also, I think this is a matter of pride. The more they want to get what they want, the better they feel. If betrayal is unfavorable at work (and elsewhere), we think that betrayal will be less

Please imagine that you will see a lady. She is married, but the passion between you has let her betray her husband. Later she divorced him and married you, her treachery is reasonable for your eyes. But you always know that she has this ability to betray. That makes her harder to believe her. You may say that she will never be dishonest to you, but you already know that she has the ability to do this. Of course, the same is true if you are a woman and you meet a man in this way. In some cases, as mentioned by JL, it is becoming more difficult. Waiver his career or moral value, whether you are faithful to the leader and whether the leader has betrayed his belief or whether he is a traitor of the values ​​you hold To do. In this case, the reason often depends on war and victory.