Both Flawed and Perfect

My mother awakens me and made me recover. I got up from sleep and looked around. At first glance I do not know where I am, but I quickly noticed that I live in Vietnam; Vietnamese background voice and humid climate strengthened my assumption. "Get up, put on your clothes" My mother called and we were going to visit them. Before asking who we were visiting, my mother left the room. After taking a shower and wearing T - shirts and jeans, I went downstairs to find out what happened.

I love my mother. It's not due to her perfection or pain, it does not own both, because it has all the mother's possessions, namely defects and everything. She constantly raised two children outside my home country and made every effort to be elegant and confidently control our experience. I recently came back from the trip, and I got the opportunity to meet some extraordinary colleagues from Kampala and Nairobi. Every day I talk about communication in the technology world, I have considered the best way to share information. During the trip I held seminars on communication, especially intercultural communication, to convey constructive feedback to a highly digitized team and introduced their influence. But somehow, I can hardly think about the topic of discussion of my own Brown Bag.

Although there are obvious differences (there is nothing broken, but there is no difference), we all communicate using "complete imperfection". "Do not worry. We are not perfect." "We are very beautiful." Although they may be kind, these citations need to cast doubts on the claim that they are complete, incomplete, and defective Why is this important and convince someone that it does not need to meet standards that do not exist! Even if the argument center is incomplete, since the prefix does not deny existence, it is simply "incomplete It is not enough to just use the word "defect". Since there is an opposite state (not complete), the original state (complete) also applies.

I am surprised that the concept of "defects" has not been elucidated yet, considering the obsession with correct or incorrect, fashionable or embarrassing, beautiful and ugly, perfect and incomplete labels. So I want to pull Shakespeare: what's the fault? When it comes to human psychological and physiological characteristics, I do not think there is a flaw. Positive body image and self-esteem movement, followed by production and commercialization prove this. The network is saturated with activities supporting it (Dove, Healthy is New Skinny). Girls and women are particularly encouraged to give up unrealistic beauty and performance standards. I would like to pay attention to the two quotes repeatedly crossing my digital path - my students mentioned even the version for the body to be active: