As You Like it: Irrational and Sexual Love

It seems to be difficult to define the general theme of love. Shakespeare investigated the concept using his play "I like you"; according to Shakespeare's point of view, the behavior, speech, and feelings of the character reflect various kinds of love. A kind of love, irrational and exaggerated type drawn by Silvius' personality. Phoebe was repeatedly rejected, but the obsession of the shepherd to her stimulated his will to maintain his constant declaration of his love.

An example of "irrational feelings" I get comes from the history of certain types of sexual abuse. I may do a flashback in case of sex, but this is accompanied by me a strong visual image and overwhelming disgust for the previous one. Interestingly, the visual element is not usually bad, but in reality it was a pleasant sexual experience from the past and turned out to be abusive at a later time. For many years, I have neglected disgust. And anyway, just contacting people. People are often encouraged by my partner, as they feel that they are doing nothing bad and I have no reason to feel my feeling. However, by ignoring these feelings, these feelings will expand until these feelings become too big and you can not sex with anyone (or until you can not even touch friends).

In the majority of history, people can not choose to partner based on the vulnerability and irrationality of love, then concentrate all the sexual, intimate and altruistic desires of the resulting marriage. In fact, many historians, sociologists, and anthropologists thought that romantic love is the latest invention of the West. This is not a fact. People are always falling in love Many couples have fallen in love in many years In two cultures and eras, real love is actually considered not to be compatible with marriage. Plato believes love is a wonderful feeling that makes men honorable behavior. However, Greek philosophers refer not to love of women "like men" but to love from one man to another.

The first type of love is the love named after Greek infertility god who represents the concept of sexual passion and desire. However, the Greeks do not think this is always positive, as we do today. In fact, eroticism is regarded as a dangerous, burning irrational form of love, catching you and possessing you. This is a Greek idea of ​​playful love, which expresses the feelings of young lovers. In the early stages of the relationship, we all like to start cheating. But when we are sitting around the bar, when laughing with friends, or going out to dance, we will also live our Ludia