There are two different kinds in the world. There are things other than us such as people's reputation and relationships. Since these things are outside of us, we can not directly control these things. There are also internal and dislikes that we can control, such as outside of desire. Internal ones can be controlled, but external ones can be more difficult to control. Some philosophers think that they can not control things from the outside, trying to control them only brings unhappiness.
Happiness comes from within and can not be seen as external. For a while in the 1990s, psychologists agreed that the external conditions are not important to the views of ancient wise men (Buddha, epitectus, etc.). However, Mr. Hyde believes now that he knows the external environment is important. By changing these, he decides how to improve happiness, including using money, and believes that the Western emphasis on behavior and struggle is not worthless. There are many kinds of love, but Hyde argues that when you see the source of love and its role, they all become meaningful. For this purpose he investigated John Bowlby 's World Health Organization - sponsored research and report, "Mother' s Health and Mental Health" in the 1950 's, and then Harry Harlow who worked in monkeys. He wrote that understanding different types of love will help explain why people make love and many mistakes, why philosophers hate love and give bad advice to us .
Among all stoics, epitectus is the closest person to a real teacher. He has a school. He supervised the course. Indeed, his wisdom gave students good handouts and told us that. One of the things that Epicttus caused dissatisfaction with philosophical students and one that caused dissatisfaction of all college professors throughout history insists that students hope to teach but secretly they are all It is to believe that you know. You will often see this in today's entrepreneur - arrogance coupled with the lack of humility until the inevitable collapse