According to www.dictionary.com, an accent is defined as "a sound that emphasizes or highlights a particular syllable, word or phrase." Different cultures have different accents all over the world, due to their way of speaking with the language. This explanation is shown in Allison Joseph's "I am told not to speak like a black man". Joseph used her mother, her mother from Jamaica as an example of an accent. In the First World War, 250,000 workers from the Caribbean Sea were employed, of which 90,000 were Jamaican people.
"Please tell me not to speak like a black man" I will tell you a story about the importance of identifying your own speech and the fact that there is no more personalized story than your own. Many people change their attitudes, personality and, in some cases, how to speak depending on the environment and the environment. As shown in lines 52 to 70, the author wants to understand the meaning of the reader. Among this content, she stated that she should not mind the way someone speaks, regardless of race, color or individual's hometown. She understood the mother, father, and everyone else in different ways of expression, so in my experience. It will not be personal. "
I'm sorry. Even if you do not think you are wrong, you are taking the responsibility because they are doing something that makes others unhappy. "I am sorry for disturbing you, but this is not my intention." If you are anxious that you are not responsible for the dispute, only the partner feels uneasy. There is no responsibility. Without opening a conversation, saying "I am angry because you do not respect me" or "I am so sensitive that I can not move around because I am careful what I say" Do not. The same thing is to say "to say these things only because the child is nervous because the child continues to go home", or "to frustrate a colleague if you do not want to keep making these mistakes" I can say that. The only thing you can get is the defensive reaction that makes it more difficult for productive conversation and is most likely to counter arguments.
Please forgive yourself forever as a good friend and move on. Do not make the situation even worse or enter the first sentence of "I care about you ..." or calm down. I apologize for what you said or did.