From the day you first met him, please imagine the love in marriage, knowing that he will take care of your children for years to come. Three months after your dream got married, you notice that you are pregnant after two years pregnancy, and you can not be happy. You are happy if you celebrate with friends and family and want to share the good news that you almost give up and are looking forward for miracles with you.
For foster parents, one of the main advantages of international adoption is that there is no competition for children, as the number of children adopted in other countries is much higher than in the United States. This makes it almost impossible for two or more couples to apply for the same child. Since the number of people is limited in the United States, competition in the country occurs internationally, because multiple couples can apply for the same child at home. As there are so many children, this situation does not happen in international cases (Pulumbo)
From a social point of view, international adoption can be thought of as a form of exploitation using an unfair social structure of "dispatching" a country where children can be adopted. In many cases, biological families can not get the freedom that domestic children enjoy. On the other hand, families who choose to adopt internationally are not competing for a limited number of healthy babies available in the country, but careful to reach out to children in need. . Secondly, international adoption provides a solution to poverty and institutional issues for children who may suffer from terrible injustice. Finally, international adoption may provide opportunities for children born of environmental trauma to grow in a safe environment (Hollingsworth, 2003, p. 210).