A Horse Without a Rider

The virginity problem before marriage has plagued the hearts of young people in the past and continues to do so for contemporary teenagers. By definition, chastity is "pure or pure state or quality" (261). Why do people have ancient abstinence practices when modern people provide multiple ways to prevent unwanted pregnancies? There are various options such as contraceptives, oral contraceptives, abortion, etc, but these methods are not 100% effective and involve many physical side effects.

What is a horse groom without a noble horse brush? What is a rider with cluttered horses? The answer is simple: it is not enough. The groom and the rider need to succeed each other at the horse's show. Riders need a groom so that the groom will rely on riders to work. If stakeholders do not cooperate, the team rarely goes over. Mutual support is important for the growth of every team and it is equally important to ask for help when it is needed. When people work together, most obstacles are controllable.

Riders have everything they need: accessories, training and courage. But without their horses, riders have nothing to be surprised. If there is no intention to express and decide based on one 's personality, that horse will disappear. When riding a new horse for the first time, the rider must give up some of their expectations and controls to understand that horse. When jumping over the fence, the rider must understand the behavior of the horse - whether they accelerate before jumping, whether they jump higher, will they need help to stay online? In order to form a symbiotic relationship of respect and love, the rider does not force each horse to satisfy the rider's expectations and desires, accepting the unique personality of the horse, and working with the horse for years It must be.

Freud compared the horse's identity with the horse rider's self. Horses provide strength and exercise, but riders offer direction and guidance. If there are no riders, the horses are likely to be anywhere regardless of their favorite places. Instead, the rider gives the direction and command of the horse to guide him or her in the direction he wants to go. For example, suppose there was a long meeting at work. As the meeting progresses, you will find yourself hungry. An identity card might force you to hurry to the lounge to jump off from the seat and eat snacks but led you to sit quietly after waiting for the end of the meeting. You did not have the original impulse to take action, but imagine you are eating a cheeseburger for the rest of the meeting. When the meeting is over, you can find what you are imagining and satisfy the requirements of the ID card in a realistic and appropriate way.